So, I really want to get my partner into playing here on Subeta. I've read through the rules and know you're supposed to file a ticket to let staff know when more than one person in a household is playing, but I have a question about this:

How limited should the gifting be? I would like to send her an outfit (which I haven't created yet, but it could end up being some expensive high-end items or CWs) and ideally a bunch of other stuff. And during Luminaire, I really like to spam people's trees with holiday items from their WL that I have multiples of (as in, I will literally put 30+ items under your tree)--if I did this to my partner, would that get me flagged? Is there a warning system in place or is it an instant freeze kind of situation?

I dunno. She created an account back in 2014 and we were too worried about me getting frozen (I'd already put a lot of hours in and would've been heartbroken) so she just decided not to play at all. (I don't think we were able to find the "Shared Computers, Connections, And Notes To Staff" part of the rules page back then.)

Okay, thank you! Sorry for posting it here.