Other then training what can i do to increase my pets stats,I know there are potions you can buy but i don't want to spend millions on just one item.
Definitely don't spend anything on boosting at the moment! Your pets are still small which means that you will get the best bang for your buck out of training/autotraining. c: Train as often as possible! Don't train level until you have to.
Let me know if you want extra details on any of those or have other questions! C:
If you are just upping your stats for the Blue Building you can ignore this, but for battling your pets will need to be smarter, so read them some books and play Mystic Spindles in addition to all of the above.
As a follow up to what said, the reason you want intellect is because it allows you to equip scrolls. While which weapons you can use are determined by your tier, which and how many scrolls you can use is determined by the amount of Alchemy Points your pet has. You get 1 AP per 16 intellect.
But, as Solsticesprite pointed out, this only matters if you want to battle.