So I moved an hr away from this guy and I haven't seen him in like... over two months. For weeks he was planning to come visit me today since like we both work and have a lot of responsibilities we've like rarely had any time to see each other. But then like yesterday he was like super distant and like now the day is half over and I haven't heard from him. I've been like super upset and lonely because tbh I've never been like a super high priority (like I'm the type who knows a lot of people but has... no genuine friends) in anyone's life ever and like tbh my relationship w this guy is pretty new and idk how much he actually even likes me. I hate being seen as clingy but I'm always put in scenarios where people just ghost me and if I don't contact them I risk not hearing from them for days, weeks, or even never again. Like idk it very well might be that I'm just unlikable. :(

I'm so sorry to hear that, that problem seems more and more common now? Did you used to live closer to him?

I understand what you are saying with the 'friend' thing. Well, 1 hr away is not that far, but we live in an age with cell phone and technology so long distance is a bit easier. Why not trying to communicate? That's the thing I tell ALL my friends when they get into new relationships! COMMUNICATE! You never know what is going on inside someone else's head unless you talk it out. So reach out to him, and see what's going on! ❤️

I can attest, 17 years of being invisible has hardend me. Any time someone tells me about letting it happen, I'd like to not be satisfied with killing them. One has even gone as far as suggesting paying for it. It's bad enough I can't earn it, buying it...

I'm glad I don't matter to them. There's something wrong with that individual, my only enemy.