Hi I think I am going mad can anyone help me how do you change your status. I am trying to put the kiss on mine just cant find out how to do it.

you should have the Subeta: Sugarbear widget on your sidebar

you can check here: https://subeta.net/preferences.php?act=sidebar

then you click on the text after your Status: in that widget and write [ kiss = sugarbear ] without the spaces and click enter c: hope that helped

Thank you think I did it.

- looks like you still need to remove the spaces in your status to make the kiss link work ^-^

Tried again hope this works

- yup that's looking good now :D

Thank you for all your help