God sake, i end my relationship in july 2015. The problem was on 2016, i noticed on a blog where sometimes i write for express myself and sometimes for complain(about some games and etc), just suddenly i saw he's ign in the site at visitor blog. This one was on May 2016 (23/05, just casual day of he's birthday). In that moment i feel a bit weird, but my friends tell me to ignore him, maybe he feeled sad or something and he have a bad time to do that. Nothing happend again, but last night, when i logged in again(i write last time on last days of 2016) and i see he's name ign again on the list of visitors. This time i laugh like a crazy insane, because was a really funny fact, see him again visiting my blog. After i think a lot, i send him a msg, because im start to get annoyed, he read the msg, but he dont have the nuts to answer it. ¿What i do? My friends says "stop using the blog" but i use it since 2011 (or 2009) and i dont want to stop it because him is still watching what i say. ¿Any Advice with this issue? I dont want to provoque a war with him. But i have a style of writing (like a history) and im sure he missunderstand something wrong with some enters on my blog and what i write on them. I only say something, he stalks my blog, but the no inteligent gots me blocked on facebook(i feel something non sense here).

The date that he started doing it makes me think that specifically he's trying to see if you wrote something about him. Hopefully if he doesn't see anything, he'll realize there's nothing for him there. If you know his IP you can also insert code to redirect him to another site when he tries to look at it in your blog.

You could password protect your blog, even if it's just temporarily, because he might give up after that?

I tryed to comunicate with him again, he really sure and promise me (on really serious tone) he never watched my profile before this time i catched him. He explain me after i reclaim to him the two other chances, and he says to me "i dont have any clue, but im sure wasnt me...i got about 1 1/2 year with out do nothing relationated with you". I asked him to change his passwords(we got some issues with he's familly when we was a couple on the past). The problem the blog is hosted in a site, where is a plataform for games, has a forums and blogs. But it gots the register of the visit. I tell him already the two dates, and he dont recognize nothing. He sure he enter on 3-4 of this month, non time before of that. Or he is lie or saying lies or something here is not good. A friend says my ex bf, still in "love" with me, thats because he provoque this situation and acting. I take some distance, but the only lucky we live in same country, but in separate states / city.

The plataform dont allows me to do that, i can make some restrictions, but are too limited for users(always mods/admin's has the totally power).

Hmm, was he generally an honest person when you dated? Is it possible it's his family who is looking at the blog, not him?

You can always contact thew host site and see if they can block his IP address from your blog. There are scripts available online for free you can use to do it on your own, you just paste the generated HTML into your blog's editing script, and he will be banned from seeing it (most also allow you to redirect to other websites too!) This is now, however, recommended if the person is technological advanced, because looking at the source code will tip the off as to what happened. Also changing one's IP address is very easy, simply restarting your modem can be enough to change it, BUT it can discourage them from trying if they see it once.

Maybe you can block him?

In part he was honest and in part he lied to me too much times in a row. I can say 1/2 honest and 1/2 lie. Only i believe him when i saw he's face, but something is bugging me, and i dont want to know it (if he really wants me back, have to take some actions, only i say "man we fixed the problem of the visits, but stop stalking already". The only thing im sure, he always "let other use he's account", this happend me before when we was a couple, i got some fights with the daughther of he's sister(that kid of 15 years old, what pain in...) and that brat made a big trouble in the past, but if he can be so stupid for give that password for other. The thing is bugging me, because one of he's visits to my blog was on 22/05/2016, just the day before he's bday (on may 23). But, ¿who in he's familly is interested on me? i never meet them before(only a bit he's mother, but no one else).

I will try to ask if some mods on the area can allow me to do that(some "commands" are blocked, but maybe they allow me if i explain the situation). maybe i will end trying it, if this continue happening.

I do already, but the plataform just dont "blocks" the user like when you block in facebook.

I can say something is bugging me is this "¿why my ex bf says "its good to know you are okay", "im glad to know you are right" and then "its nice to talk again after a long time" (1 1/2 year after i end the relationship with him)?. I check the chat and i recognize he says that sentences in 5-7 times in a row in a part of the chat. ¿He still in love with me? i mean, he was angry when i cut the relationship with him, and he blocked me, he now after he contacted me on facebook(because i left him a reclaim and then block because i was really annoyed), now he leaved me with no blocking, and he really checked all my blog. I dont know why this is bugging me.

I was stalked by a former colleague. That's one of the reasons I'll never join face book, twitter or other similar sites like that. People judge too quickly about persons who has reason to block somebody else and I have better things to do than to waste my time to convince people when they have got no sympathy or understandings for my reasons.

If it bothers you he still give you the feeling he follows you, just block/ignore him and don't care too much what other people may think and judge about you. Maybe he doesn't have the intentions to stalk you really, but the fact is, you feel unpleasant about it. On my opinion that's reason enough to block him.

I personally don't think this stalking, but this COULD turn into stalking. Stalking would be repeated phone calls, text messages, e-mails. This is just his attempt to annoy you on your blog. I would suggest blocking him, or starting a new blog on a different site.

Definition: the act or an instance of stalking, or harassing another in an aggressive, often threatening and illegal manner.

I've been stalked. I had a "friend" who sexually abused me and eventually got this way with me. He showed up at my workplace one time when I said I wanted nothing to do with him. I got repeated text messages and phone calls. Police here did nothing, because they're corrupt. They said I wanted it and it wasn't rape because when he was about to force himself on me, he said "What's the matter?" and I said "ok". I was intimidated and when I said stop, he didn't. He finally stopped after a few thrushes.