I started watching girl/girl "videos" (if you know what I mean) when I was in grade 6 and 7. My parents always thought that I was a lesbian.

I like looking at girls and their body parts. I also like looking at guys and their parts. I told my mom this, that "I like girls and boobs" and she was like "Why am I not surprised?". I feel very comfortable with both genders. I've had sex with men, but never women and I'd like to explore that, but I'm too shy to go out and meet people. We have a gay bar in my city and I feel very comfortable there. It's like I can gawk without people staring at me in return.

I also have same sex dreams and I tend to keep my nails very short (I don't know if that's mention worthy). I've also had crushes on females. I'm a type of person who doesn't fall in love easily and I've haven't had crushes for years.

I'm 29 and I still don't have things figured out yet. It's frustrating. I've liked both genders for a long time.

Pinging you here, if you want to offer your insight. There's more to it then this.

Surprisingly, a lot of girls enjoy watching same sex videos while getting off. However, they are sexually attracted to mens. I'd say sexuality is not as "strict" as it used to be.

The best way to discover what you like and what you don't ... is to experiment and experience c:

Sexual orientation is a very, very personal thing. It isn't one size fits all. c:

I know. I'm trying to get down to the nitty-gritty. When I was a kid (grade 4 to be exact), I had a female friend. I asked her "If I touch someone, do I get their germs?" And she said "yes". So, I put my hands around her waist because I wanted her germs. I even kissed her on the cheek once and she didn't like that.

It's very fluent now.

I did have a sexy experience at a restaurant today. We went out for my grandma's Birthday and we were served by a lady (early 50s) and she had a raspy voice. I thought that was so attractive. I wanted to keep looking at her because I thought she was good looking, but I was with my grandma.

I meant that in that why pick one label. Pick what's you.

I know that labels are bad, and I am what I am. I'm either Bi, or Bi curious. I'll only know until I find a female to experiment with and that's gonna be hard. I have no friends and don't know where to go looking.

"I'm either bi or curious". What if you were none though?

If I wasn't bi or curious, I'll be ok with that.

Labels aren't necessarily bad, they're just words for describing one's experience.
(if you're interested in other words that might describe what you're feeling, you could look at pansexual or polysexual.)

It's funny you mentioned pansexual, because someone I used to work with described me being potentially pansexual.

- For meeting women, there's that bar you mentioned, though it would be wise to not hook up while drunk. You could also see if there's any other LGBT+ friendly spots around you. A third option is dating sites and apps, though I have no experience with that.

I know what you mean about your age... I'm 25 and confused about certain aspects of myself. But, it's never too late to explore and search for yourself.

Wow, what you are describing is a lot what I have been confused with myself lately. I've been very confused and unsure who to talk to about it, cause I can't talk to my mom as she is extremely Christian and has expressed a great distaste for same gender relationships and irrc told me if me or any of my sisters had that kind of relationship, she would still love us but not want to talk to us until the "situation" was over as she can't deal with the idea of it.

So having no friends, I actually came to this forum to possibly post my own thread about this, and maybe I should, I just thought posting in a preexisting thread where someone else is having the same confusion would be okay. I was going to post more detail, but it seems like what I have written is incredibly long, and it might be more appropriate in it's own thread... I don't know. I just feel confused and need someone to talk to about it because I can't talk to my mom or the only person I know IRL that I thought I could talk to and apparently I was wrong.... ._.

Well, you could always post more details in this topic. Maybe I've felt the same too? Have you tried looking into getting a counselor or a therapist?

I haven't actually as they cost money I don't exactly have to throw at something like this. Money is really tight for my family, and since I don't have a job, and I can't talk to my mom about this, I really don't have any chance of finding a therapist or such to talk to. However, luckily for me Armor is such a nice person and discussed the subject in private with me and they were incredibly helpful. From the information they gave me, I feel I was able to figure it all out and identify how I am and how I feel.

It's rather lengthy, but I could try recapping what I discussed told to Armor. But it is incredibly lengthy and I'll probably have to go back through my PMs to pick out the relevant parts of them.

Sure! PM the details :D

Alrighty, I'll probably just kinda copy/paste the paragraphs I wrote that I think are the most relevant. I'm kinda lazy and don't want to try rewriting them all and making them all into one coherent post. ;v

As I mentioned before, labels are pretty much just tools to help you describe yourself. If you like multiple genders and it feels good or useful to call yourself bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, omnisexual, or something else, then go ahead and call yourself that! (You can also combine, mix and match, make up words, etc.) If none of those fit, or you don't feel like you need a label for yourself, that's also 100% fine. Or if you use one for a while, then decide you don't like it anymore, that's also OK. These words exist to help you, so use or don't use them however is best for you.