Hi there, I feel awkward to post this on the first day here. But I really need an advice on this matter from you because I don't know whether I am doing foolish things. Last day, I had a fight with my bf because I avoided him while I was with my friends. I didn't think it’d hurt him, now he is avoiding me. He is not taking my calls and avoiding me when I am trying to talk. I don't know how to convince him. He is stubborn and now I am going to give him the same treatment. And, I am going to surprise him on his birthday, October 27. He loves to wear couple dresses and bands so I am thinking about surprising him with a couple band on his birthday. But I don't have any experience in making bands. I think I can make the band with elastic bands and stones so that it might get a rich look. I meant to make a band looking like this men's band and write some funny quotes on the metal plate between the stones. I hope that I can make the band and surprise him because he knows that I have no talent in artworks. But, I fear if it is foolish of me. Will he leave me if I avoid him? I am worried too.

a relationship based on manipulation and jealousy is a toxic one. If you two are playing games as a way to sway each other into giving more attention or acting differently than you both need to sit down and discuss whether or not you really care about each other.

A relationship should start with a friendship built on trust and care. If you aren't caring for each other's feelings and well being then it may be time to look elsewhere. The bands are a lovely idea but the relationship may not be. I hope these words are not too harsh but I do also hope you look after yourself, your feelings, and his. <3