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Sep 25, 2016 9 years ago
FENNEC
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So this might sound complicated. I had this online family on this one site. Mostly just knew the father. He recently had gotten a gf again after his last one a few months back. I came back a few months saying I'd like to be in the family again. Then recently he left her because he found her cheating. And I felt horrible because I really did like her. Recently hes locked himself in the game and I started feeling isolated. He talked about how his family on the site was like his own but never mentioned me in it. So I got mad and started saying how it was like i was not as important and then he said he was stressed off with all my negativity and blocked me. So I guess its over. I'm tearing a little bit rl because i went through so much with him and I tried apologizing but like i said he blocked me. I'm going to miss him but theirs nothing I can do. I know someones going to say cry it all out and move on. Idk...I just felt like I had so much invested in this. I had been in families on this other site before but all of them burned out and turned out not well. Maybe its a sign that sites not that good for me, shrugs. If he couldn't handle me at my worst...was he really a true friend then?

Sep 26, 2016 9 years ago
Annet
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Chelsea

I'm sorry for you to hear.

No, he is NOT a true friend for you. Simple. A true friend can listen to an other with a different opinion about something. It could be the friend you like, was indeed wrong and nasty to him, and he feels misunderstood by you. If this was actually happened, it's logic he's not happy when you are disagree with him and it's also logic he's not agree with you too. But block you by this reason, could be overreacted.

Anyway what the reason from him may be, if he approach you in the future, you could as best block him on your turn and ignore.

I don't know when it went going wrong between you and him, but his decision to block you, makes an end to your friendship with him and maybe also with you and the rest of the family. Someone who rejects another like this, has no value for you anymore. Ban him out of your life. Permanently. It's a waste of time to try to make this relation better. This has no chance anymore.

It is rigorous and very unpleasant to do, but it is the most wise thing you could do.

All power to you.

Sep 27, 2016 9 years ago
FENNEC
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True, thank you.

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