I mean, I generally hate interacting with people, period. But there are certain things that I can't stand. I'm sure you have some too, so feel free to share.

I hate it when someone addresses me as 'my friend'. You are not my friend. We're barely aquaintances. I only smile and am nice when you come in to my work place because I want to keep my job. It definitely, in no way, means that I like seeing you. When I say 'Good to see you too' it generally means 'I wish I never had to see or hear you ever again because you're annoying as fuck'.

When I'm at work at my desk and someone stands next to the desk and stares at me. Doesn't say anything. I can't tell if you're wanting to talk to me or if you're reading one of the many papers posted on the side of my desk just by seeing you out of the corner of my eye. Usually I'm typing away or reading something on my computer and I will not stop unless you say 'Excuse me' or something of the like. So don't get all pissy when I don't immediately ask how I can help you.

When people chew gum (or food for that matter) with their mouth open while attempting to converse. If you wonder why my eye keeps twitching while you're talking at me (or chewing at me) and I'm looking increasingly pissed, it's because you're setting off my misophonia and the only reason I've not told you to knock it the fuck off is because I want to keep my job.

When people who assumedly love me, you know, because they're family, refuse to understand that I am telling them to stop something they're doing because it's hurting me (via misophonia/misokinesia) and not because I'm being a bitch/being controlling/etc.

When I get a phone call at work and it's a wrong number and instead of being polite and going 'I'm sorry, I've the wrong number' and I'd say 'Oh that's fine, have a nice day', they go 'Ugh, fine' and slam the phone down. Wtf. It's my fault you dialed the wrong number?! Shit, it's like an adult temper tantrum.

Oh, there's so many more...but I'm getting angry just thinking about it, so maybe I'll post some more later. Lemme read yours!

I still hate when people chew with their mouths open. It has nothing to do with anything except basic manners..and also, people are not cows, they are not chewing cud. I've had pretty constant moderate allergies all my life with a post nasal drip, so as someone who frequently had no choice but to breath through her mouth because of congestion, my parents still taught me and I still learned how to chew with my mouth shut. It's just rude when someone doesn't. Ruuuuude. And ick. I don't want to see what they're masticating. XD

So i totally feel you there.

When people walk too slowly and I can't dodge them because it's a crowded area (in reverse, when they walk too fast and sigh behind me. If you can dodge me, then please go ahead for fuck sake)

When teachers are reminding us that they have a life and children: don't we all? I mean come on, how self entitled are you?

I have a hard time when people are touching me in the bus, especially when I take care of removing my backpack to make way and when I literally shove myself near the bus wall (or almost). They apologize and touch my ass again or my back and I fucking hate it.

I can't stand my school team anymore. I'm taking a first year class even though I'm a 2nd year and they just want to use me because I've passed the class before but was declined proper crediting. They are not even ashamed about it, which piss me the fuck off. Don't expect shit from me, I have shit more important than you.

I hate when people reverse sneeze to remove the shit clogged in their throat and whatnot. It's fucking disgusting because you don't shove it in a tissue - no you fucking swallow it and it triggers me.

People not washing their hands when leaving the bathroom - expecting me to shake their hands. Fuck no. I'm sorry but fuck no. I don't care if urine is sterile, your genitals aren't and your butthole either.

Oops. Not all of them are leading to an interaction, but I can't stand it ha ha.

Eye contact in general. I'm nearly blind in my left eye and maintaining eye contact is one of the most difficult things for me because I feel like my left eye keeps crossing in towards my nose and I'm very self conscious about it.

People chewing with their mouths open. Just... no.

Unwashed hands in public bathrooms. I mean, yes, I'm guilty of departing the bathroom without but I have hand sanitizer in my bag because I figure the door handle just makes washing my hands moot.

The very, very subtle glares I get for waiting on my disabled mother in the car when the waiting room is too full or something like. Like, fuck's sake, don't judge a book by its cover.

Just... people. XD

I hate it when people I don't know or don't care about say "buddy", "honey", or some other nickname. I have an actual name. USE IT.

I can't stand people staring at me... It makes me very uncomfortable. And, I literally can't make eye contact. I manage to look at foreheads out of necessity, but that's it. I must of mastered this technique, because no one has said anything about it. XD

People standing too close to me. I have social anxiety, and people being too close to me causes me to shut down. It's even worse when I move away AND THEY GET CLOSER. Seriously, some people don't understand the meaning of personal space.

When dirty old men state at my chest when talking to me. I just put my elbows on my desk and hands on opposite shoulders and narrow my eyes while still keeping my 'pleasant-working-with-people' voice with them.

When you close the blinds (or ask the waitstaff to) at a restaurant because the sun is making you slowly go blind and the person at the table next to the window opens it right back up and glares at you. And then pitches a fit when you ask for it to be closed again. Selfish asshats.

Lately I've been eating a lot of fast food and tbh I'm getting very frustrated with the local McDonalds. So like everytime I order food the person who is taking my order says " take your time no rush" but like 5 seconds later when I am trying to think they say " will that be all" after I had just said no and they asked me its like wtttttf stop cutting me off all the time .

I'm extremely sensitive to noise like If I hear anyone playing music loud any of my neighbors it like drives me crazy its very painful and It makes my anger level rise. Like I hate that the owner of this apartment expects me to walk up and let them know. I'm pretty sure the person knows that it is not a appropriate level but they dont care. I shouldn't be having to go upstairs every 5 mins to tell someone their music needs to be turned down and who plays music at 11 pm at night on a weekday .

haha i feel like there so much you gotta deal with in the food industry theres almost no time to be annoyed with things......though i am uncomfortable when my co-workers gossip??? like, i get chit chattin' but sometimes they talk about other ppl once theyre out of earshot and im like "nope im not down with this drama i just got this job lol"

What bugs me always with my one friend is when I'm called for an afternoon out. Once I get there, comes the always present " we need to do something first". That something will take the entire afternoon, and sometimes well into the evening. If we finish, its too late to go wherever we wanted to go. Its been like this for ten years.

Well, he now got a lady friend. So I haven't even gotten a single invitation. In that absence, I've since made enough progress to no longer need his company. Friends are meaningless now. I sank that ship.

I'm really introverted so I hate interacting with people at all unless I'm drunk.

I like to think I'm a laid back person. It took me about 20-22 years to become like this though. Around age 20, talking with people beyond the normal programmed customer service garbage was very stressful. Still find myself not being able to interact in some situations. But with time I've learned not to take things personally, etc.

Besides the usual, people not washing their hands after doing something unsanitary, or talking with their mouths full, I dislike interacting with people who have to be the center of a conversation. It's fine one on one, but in bigger groups it's just a pain.

Example would be: Guy who lives below me had friends over often and they eat, drink, have fun. The only problem is, no one is allowed to carry on a conversation without him in it. He will make sure that you're listening to him and nothing else. His favorite phrases are: "Hey. Hey! HEY! No! Hey!" "Listen for a second. Just a second. Come on! I'd like to say something."

You get the picture. It's very frustrating and especially in a big group, where it is ok to carry on multiple conversations. To add to that, there's always the same advice when someone finds out you're not having a good time. "You can just talk over the person to get into the conversation!" No, that's not possible. Not only is it rude, but when someone tries, they get yelled at for being rude. For what? For following the advice that was given to them a few seconds ago by the person reaming them out? Nooo thanks. Or better yet, "you can always talk to the other people in the group! It doesn't have to be with Mr/Ms Attention Seeker." Usually said by the person who doesn't let anyone have their own conversation.

When I can't talk to others without getting the feelings of the need to escape. I feel bad about that too. Its nothing personal, I'm just very awkward when it comes to conversation skills.

People who talk obsessively about something. People repeating their stories when a new person joins the circle and you have to listen again. People sharing too much info about themselves and their drama. People talking for a long period of time when they should be doing something productive (or maybe I'm standing there and I need to talk to one of them but they keep going on).

There has been a wave of new mothers at work this year. I understand the excitement and everything, and yes babies are cute and do cute things. It's doesn't help that I'm about the only child-free woman in the whole office and I just don't have that "baby mania" thing that most women have.

But seriously, if I do ever become a mother I will make sure to NOT be like these people. There are some mornings that are like a big show and tell. Blow by blow detail about what the kid did last night. Photos and videos included. Oh but look another woman comes in and they repeat the story again and blast the video of their screaming kid again. The repeating the story thing can happen up to 3-4 times in a day. Do you need to tell everyone and drone on all day about your kids newest allergies? Do you really really need to talk obsessively about your kids bowel movements in graphic detail? Do you realize what you think is so cute is actually bratty and your enabling your kid? I'm also calling out fathers too. At one of my old jobs I had to go to a special dinner and was stuck there silently listening to all the men talk about their little juniors and their sporting activities.

Like, really, I understand your kids are an important part of your life, but there is work to be done at work on work time, and maybe you should consider that there are other things that can be talked about and other people who you can include in a conversation. And maybe you shouldn't be airing everything about your kid and life out there. There is a high level of TMI being breached that should not be going on.

People who cut me off. People who don't respond to what I'm saying / sharing. Like I've seen y'all interact with other people / each other, but when I speak, you ignore it and move on to the next subject? hello awkward and inconsiderate af and y'all wonder why I don't care to talk much??

and basically everything else posted above me

I hate being touched by people who aren't on my select list of acceptable. I really hate being touched by strangers. Like, I was picking up a book in the public library a couple weeks ago and I was wearing a tee shirt I bought in Boston. On the back, it's a hamburger guy holding his fists up and it says, "You Can't Beat Our Meat". An elderly lady came up behind me and grabbed the back of my shirt and pretty much yelled in my ear, "You can't beat our meat? What does that mean and where did you get this shirt from?" And she was still holding onto my shirt like a mother does with a child.

I also have depressed resting face, like I look sad all the time. Most of the time, I'm not even thinking about anything. Well, my depressed resting face encourages people to come up to me and rub my back or something. It's like, "What's with the touching of a person you don't even know?"

I hate it when I say "pardon me" when it was the other person who was in the way and they don't say anything at all.

Well I don't want to sit here and try to list all the things that make me angry with people because there are just too many to write, I could likely write a short novel all about it. However, I'd like to say I identify with this right here the most.

I have the most irrational irritation with this same trigger, Gum chewing not exclusive (especially with their mouths wide open). My mom is the literal worst about this, especially when she decides to chew gum in the car where I have no hope of escape, and then SHE gets pissed off if I choose to put my ipod in making it so she can't talk to me, so she starts talking to me and gets mad when she realizes I didn't hear her.

THEN when I am asked why I did what I did, and I sheepishly tell her its cause I cant stand her gum chewing, she gets furious and angrily throws her gum out, telling me IM being intolerant and shoulda just dealt with it... Like FFS really... Its flipping annoying. And then she later tells me I can put my Ipod in if I don't like her chewing gum because she doesn't like "not being able to live her life" by having to be considerate by not chewing gum ONLY when I'm around her. But, as you know, using my Ipod is obviously not the answer because she still gets mad.

Slurping of soup, dogs or cats (or any other animals for that matter) lapping up water and other sounds that have a very similar "sound wave" for lack of better phrasing. Also, pianos..

All of these sounds, plus probably a few more I can't think of right now all initiate an immediate rage (Seriously I go from placid and happy to the equivalent to a female hulk on her period in a matter of nanoseconds) and irritation of absurd levels that I am always called intolerant for which only makes me even more angry because oh, I have to be the tolerant one and deal with it, yet no one can be understanding and considerate of me..

I'm so mad just thinking about it I'm having to try so very hard not to begin writing a long list of explicit words in this post...

Also thank you for teaching me what this irrational irritation is called. I never knew Misophonia was an actual thing. Now I can actually feel like I'm not just an irrational bitch but have an actually valid reason as to why I react the way I do.

I also agree with that too. I HATE people touching me unless I expressly solicit it either by offering a hug or saying they can hug me. Additionally I CANNOT stand being tapped on, even by approved people. I have gotten where I am a lot more open with being hugged from more and more people, but being brushed, patted or tapped without any approval or solicitation garners an almost identical response to when someone sets off the Misophonia triggers.

Also back up on the topic of people chewing gum and the Misophonia, IT ALSO annoys me to no end whenever I do something wrong, I ask how to fix it, am told how the other person wants me to go about fixing the issue however it is, AND THEN when I do it, EXACTLY how they asked, THEY STILL get pissed off. Like why? WTF? What do you want from me? Seriously.

Wow that was longer than I expected to write. Good thing I chose to omit all the other things that annoy me because geeze it would seem I hate the world with how much that ticks me off. Which might actually be close to accurate. I also share in most of the other irritations all of you have posted, I completely understand you guys. I am so sorry. I'm going to go before I write the whole novel I previously mentioned.... ><

Omg. My dad likes to slurp everything he eats. From coffee, to soup, even right down to a steak. I hate it and I can't stand it! My mom and brothers feel the same way too.

I think these are more of pet peeves, rather then things I hate. But at work, I hate stupid people. Especially when it comes to fish. There are cold water, salt water and tropical (fresh water). You do NOT mix any of them. Cold water stays with cold water, salt with salt.. you get the picture. I had this one customer who asked me "What do I feed my fish? They're gold fish and I also have neons" So, I asked "In the same tank?" and she said yes. OMG.

I also hate it when people stick their fingers in our bird cages, hamster cages, just cages period. Animals are not meant to be prod, you look with your eyes.

There is so much more, but now I'm getting upset, so I'll stop here.

i hate it when i'm touched, in any way, without it being solicited. my phone case even says "don't fucking touch me." maybe i need to get that tattoed on my forehead and the back of my neck. i startle easily. very easily. if i'm touched, or someone calls my name, i jump a recoil a bit before responding. it makes me very nervous. so i hate it when people laugh and say "aww, come on, i'm not going to hurt you! lol!" as if my startle response is something to joke about. how am i supposed to know you won't hurt me. everyone who has hurt me has said that. come at me gently and in my line of vision, please. being interrupted or not being able to say what i need to say. i feel as though people just get a kick out of ignoring me? like people just DO NOT fucking let me talk or even finish my sentence before butting in. you don't know what i was going to finish with. your interception is usually pointless, because i usually build up to the point im trying to make and it does no good to cut me off. i hate being stared at. i hate when people call me pet names. with girls it's usually fine. but if a guy calls me honey or sweetheart i want to take a chainsaw to his genitals. this one is a little silly, but people always ask me if my tattoos hurt. um, yes? what exactly are you expecting me to say? overall, i feel like 90% of the conversations i have are just humoring someone so i don't come off as rude. idc. idgaf. i really just want to be left alone.

I had when people mouth along silently to what I'm saying...do they realize they're doing it in order to better comprehend? Mm, I dunno.

I also hate when people get in my bubble to ask me to help them locate a book, shove pieces of paper and/or their cellphones in my face with the list of books they're requesting,...that retail list could go on forever!