sometimes i hate typing rants, and asking for advice; but honestly it makes me feel so much better to get things off my chest.

so i'll try to make this short as possible, and if anyone has questions on how this got started, i will totally tell you.

so my dad is dating a 31 year old, mind you know that my dad is almost 62. that is a 31 year difference, and to some people it looks a little... strange. at first, i really liked the girl because her personality seemed awesome, but totally wasn't my dad's type. i always felt like i knew her motives ever since i met her, because no young female is going to date someone double their age because they have a "connection". she is a money hungry gold digger, simple as that. my dad takes her to california and las vegas almost every weekend, since we live in arizona and it's a short trip either way, so it's convenient for them. i could go on and on just about their relationship and how wrong it is; but that's not what i'm upset about the most at the moment.

last night, my brother and father were having a simple conversation, that was civil. of course my brother said some things that made it into an argument, which led my dad to start screaming at my brother. all of a sudden my dad's girlfriend comes out and starts screaming at my brother too?! like uh, who is she to come out and get crazy with my brother and call him names; when this could of been resolved between my dad and brother. i went up to my dads girlfriend and said, "hey, don't talk to my brother like that. this is our home, and this was between my dad and him; it has nothing to concern you." she gets mad, and starts getting into my face, calling my names. like i've said, i have NEVER liked her motives, and i knew that her personality was just a cover to make us like her. me and her are in a screaming match, over the smallest thing. i think why it got so escalated is because my brother and i, with the rest of our family, DO NOT LIKE HER; due to her motive and the way she has her lifestyle (of living off my poor dad).

my dad starts getting into my face, yelling at me, saying to "shut up" and "sit down" and everything else. not once did he tell his girlfriend not to talk to me like that. not once did he say the things he said to me. my dad should of had my back, no matter who is in my face, screaming at me. i'm there for him 100% and always have and will be, and he drops me completely for this girl. after the screaming match, he kicked me and my brother out. told us to pack up all our things and get out by the time he gets back. not once has he ever said that to me, and he promised me in the past he never would. as this was happening i sent my boyfriend voice messages over the phone to show him what was happening at home. my boyfriend and his sister got there in the matter of 10 minutes, trying to break up all the fights and try to tell my dad there is no reason for him to kick us out when we literally did nothing wrong.

once they got there, my dad's girlfriend was leaving, pulling out of my garage. i was still yelling at his girlfriend, because she tried running my feet over, when i was trying to walk out of the way. my boyfriend's sister parked her car in the middle of the street out of concern, and ran to me. then, my dad's girlfriend tries to run into my boyfriend's sisters car! like who does that!? obviously the sister got mad, because it's a brand new vehicle, and she was literally an inch or two away. the sister yelled at her to be careful and not run into her car. then my dad's girlfriend puts her car into reverse and tries to run over the sister.

so after all the arguing happened, me and my brother went to my boyfriend's house. my dad didn't try to call me, text me, or anything trying to apologize. he even changed the locks on us on the same day it happened.

i'm so sorry that this is literally a million words long, but there was no way to explain what really happened. my heart is literally broken into pieces just seeing what my dad has done to this family. if anyone can relate, or agree, or anything; ping me and let's talk. i have never been more upset, and a little bit of a feeling that i shouldn't even be on this earth if my own dad doesn't want me anymore.

again, sorry everyone. just needed to let that all out.

I'm sorry you're having to put up with this. My best advice is to file assault charges against them due to that crazy woman trying to run over your boyfriend's sister. http://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/criminal-defense/criminal-offense/pressing-charges-a-criminal-act.htm That site is a good place to start with that. It's really unacceptable that this took place, and really she should be slapped with some kind of criminal charge for it.