I found something today that my BF posted and I'm really hurt by it. But then again I'm not sure if my feelings are justified or if I'm being possessive.

We have a long distance relationship so adult things are hard to do. We send adult pictures back and forth sometimes. He's always been into nude modeling which I was fine with when we started dating. But recently he posted some very revealing pictures on the site he uses for this, on top of that they were originally taken for me. I feel hurt and I want to tell him that I do, I feel like he took something private and intimate between us and posted it for strangers to see. I'm not angry just very very hurt. But then again I tell myself it's his body and he can ultimately do what he likes with it. I dont want to seem like that possessive guy who controls what their partner does. I dont want him to feel like he cant express himself in that way ether. I just feel like a line was crossed and it hurts. I'm not sure how to go about talking to him about this.

I feel like I need outside views on this situation before I proceed if anyone feels comfortable doing so.

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Feelings are feelings. The way and the choice how to handle with is more a thing to judge about. As your tone is the same to him as in this topic you are absolutely not over reacting.

If a boyfriend I know would do this it could hurt me too. I think it's a little naive from him. Because nobody knows which strangers visit the site and will abuse the pictures...

It's a sign you care about him un due the large distance too feel hurt if he does some risky things. So it's normal to talk about with him and let him know.

I would tell him exactly what you just told us. Or if you feel like it'll be too hard to say, write it all out in a letter and then give it to him in person (or mail it and tell him to Skype you when he gets it and open it then) and just explain that you really care about him, but you really needed to tell him this.

Well I talked to him about it, he threw a fit and refused to explain anything to me. Not sure what I'm going to do at this point.

It seems he is not willing to listen to you at this moment. :(

There could be difference causes.

Maybe he feels overwhelmed by your approach and concerns and he is willing to talk over a few days.

It could be he expected more enthusiasm instead of worries from you.

It could be also he only wants to have fun and he just doesn't want have to do with more seriously cases.

Or he has got a vision to life free without concerns and restrictions for some possible risks.

It is his own body and his own choice though, but does he understands your concerns?

Could it be that he actually deliberately chooses to have a long distance relationship because he can not find a suitable combination of a classic relation on a way by two lovers under one roof for himself?

I suppose there is a difference between you and him in life style, but I'm not sure.