Intent:

Sometimes we just need a little time and space to take care of things in Real Life.

This thread provides a dedicated area where any Lair Bear may post a notification about an upcoming or ongoing absence from Subeta and Lair activities.

To maintain privacy, NO reasons for their absence are needed, or required. It will be personal choice if they wish to do so.

In this way, any absent Bear will avoid the stress of explanations, or numerous board posts, messages and enquiries as to their whereabouts and well-being. This will also relieve their friends in the Lair of any worries regarding their absence.

At the end of each message, simply post the small bear emoji (showing that the person has not left the Lair ~ just gone into Hibernation Mode). 🐻

Thread Rules:

1. NO intrusion of privacy (Only individuals themselves or a trusted friend with permission to do so should post on this thread ~ may add a time-frame for absence, or leave unknown)

2. NO responses needed (NO questions, NO messages, NO ping-fest)

3. Even when our friends are absent from the Lair, we love keeping them involved in ongoing events (with kisses, dances, candy hearts, etc.). It’s the Lair way of showing how much we miss them and hope to see them back with us. This again will be personal choice ~ simply add a check mark after the bear emoji for YES ✔ or a cross for NO ❌ If you wish for fellow bears to help you during event or not.

Final Thoughts:

1. Posting on this thread is completely voluntary. The Lair is here for you when you need us and we respect anyone’s need for complete privacy if you do not wish to do so.

2. For those Lairbears in other countries outside of the U.S. : if your not sure or dont understand something in thread please contact SeriousGreen or Sydney we will be happy to help, if we can.

This thread was done through both SeriousGreen and I, I couldnt have done this thread without her. Plus Laurie, we talked with her throughout the drafting of this thread. Out of respect to her being the head bear of the Lair.

Hi gang, As I said earlier, I'm in and out, out more than in, because I'm handling family stuff. can post on my behalf. I miss you all and hope to be more active after things chill out... I'm just not sure when that will be.

🐻 ✔

Sydney SeriousGreen Laurie: I guess I would like to get some help with any or all of the events for this year, I'll be extremely busy in RL for this year. sigh

Well, I'll still be able to check out during my breaks, but I can't really play during the weekday. 🐻 ✔