I am really happy with someone for once... It's almost our year and at the end of March we're gonna go to Florida. I have had the most funnest time with my significant other which I've never really have had fun in the past with anyone like this. He actually enjoys going out with me and doing things with me. He wants to see me happy. No matter my mood he always puts a smile on my face....

I am not used to it... Being treated the way I am from him. Even tho my relationship is this long.... I'm surprised he's still with me because I am a very emotional person and have mental problems because of past experiences with people in my life. I don't know how I can get used to it... I want to so badly. Sometimes my emotions feel like I'm pushing him away when I am not trying to do it but he still doesn't give up on us. I finally have a relationship that I want and it's just so scary to me... I'm so used to being treated so poorly by other people (like the guy who introduced me to this awesome site) and I just really hope that before I die that I'll finally get used to it... Is there anyone who understands this? If so how do you cope with it cause I don't know how to. I'm way more happier than I've ever been in my life it's weird... I want to get used to it...

Hi! It seems your problem needs to be faced with learning you deserve this. You need to learn you are worthy of his love, no matter how difficult you are to deal with at times.

I totally have dealt with this before. I was in a bad relationship previously. My ex just wasn't the person for me and didn't treat me fairly. I realized I wasn't being treated right, but accepted it because I thought that's what I deserved.

Moving onto my next relationship, my current boyfriend is so much more understanding and caring. I don't feel like I'm walking on eggshells and I can totally be myself. He loves me and would do anything for me. He's not selfish and just all around incredible. We are so compatible.

It is weird to get use to having someone love you NO MATTER what. The thing is, it has to deal with an internal conflict with yourself. Try to find the root of why you feel like that, and talk it out with your partner. It might've been a previously relationship (like me), how you were raised, society, friends, etc. Anything could be it. Communication is key in any relationship. Good luck ❤️

- Wow, this is EXACTLY what I've been feeling the last few months. I have a wonderful fiance whom I know I want to spend the rest of my life with. But, at the same time, I try to push him away without meaning to.

I was abused growing up and by my ex. I was also abandoned by several key people in my life. So, I know I'm hesitant to get close to people. But, I love having someone to be close with. It's a conflict that annoys me to no end.

It's amazing you have someone who stays with you despite your conflict. He's a keeper. As for "getting used to it", it really more like accepting it. Talk to him about what you feel insecure about and let him know that you appreciate his support. Having the open communication between you two is essential. This is difficult to do (I struggle with the communication at times), but it will help you build a sense of self-worth.

If you feel overwhelmed by the idea of the relationship, take some time for yourself and take a walk, listen to music, or something that would help you clear your mind.

Thank you both very much. What you both said helps very much and I'll talk to him about it the next time we go on one of our dates.

It's nice knowing I'm not the only one who has felt this way :)

- You're welcome and good luck! :D

Thanks I need it cause I did something so stupid x.x

- Oh no, what happened? D:

Well, when we first dated I told him I'm very curious about females (I'm bi and never experience with them) and he said I could experiment. Well, I did it once with my friend in the beginning then never did it again. Well, I was very drunk last Thursday and we did it. And I felt really bad the next day I felt horrible and well, I told him I was very honest with him. We worked it out I just need to work on the trust. He told me to never do it again. It really hurt him. I just can't do it again. We're fine now. I'm not speaking to her anymore. I deleted her number without telling her but honestly I don't think she would care because I always made the effort to text her anyways not the other way around ever. So not a huge loss on that. Least I still have my boyfriend... It shocks me. Never making that mistake again EVER

- Drinks with certain people are never a good idea... I've made the same mistake as well. But, you came clean and told the truth, which is wonderful. You also cut off all contact with the girl, which is also wonderful.

It sounds like you and your boyfriend are going to be okay. Just make sure that he won't hold the mistake against you or resents you for it. The trust will take a while to redevelop, so be patient.

Yeah we're still gonna go to Florida together and he's very excited and we're doing well. We never mention it about it.

- That is awesome! Good luck to you two! :D

this is crazy, because i feel the same way with my boyfriend. number one, congrats on being in a relationship that makes you happy. that's what matters the most! number two, i feel you, i really do.

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, and it's still a shocker to me, that he put up with me for so long. I have severe depression and anxiety, and possible bi-polar disorder. he understands that i'm not exactly normal in the head, and he accepts me for that.

personally, i think it's crazy of my boyfriend to stay with me, because i'm an emotional wreck. but since he loves me, he's willing to take all the abuse from me (when i'm having an off day and go off on anyone or anything. no, i don't mean abuse by violence, lol.)

but it seems like your partner seems like they really love you. you'll get use to it soon, i promise.

Sorry for the late response been not having time to get on here at all :/

And it's so nice to have someone who understands the whole me being crazy and yet he still is with me no matter what. And I know in time I'll get used to it but it's still so odd cause I know how crazy emotional I can get but yet he's still loving me and never will let me go x]