There is this guy that I really like. We have everything in common and he can make me laugh so hard it hurts at any moment. He tickles me a lot and it doesn't seem platonic. He doesn't seem causual about being touchy feely with others.Like I had a guy friend who was very playful and would poke and tickle any friends.But my crush doesn't seem like that. But he is super hot and cold. We were talking and joking around. He asked me about doing a game night and I was like sure. but later on he was being really quiet and wouldn't talk to me. And theres a major problem. He is a coworker. Which I know is a bad idea. But I can't stop thinking about him.

Well have you confronted him about it? I'm not sure how old you are, but if he was with his friends maybe he acts differently around you then he does with them. I know you like him and he seems to sound like he likes you as well, but I would honestly ask him what was up with that night. But that's just me, I confronted a guy if he was acting weird.

Things with coworkers can work out, my 2 friends are getting married and they worked together in retail together. All you have to do is act professional at your job, no funny business in front of the customers.

If you haven't known him for super long, then you might not know if there's something going on in his personal life that might be distracting him sometimes. It does sound like there could be something there though, and you should probably figure out a way to tell him. Then you can both decide if you think you can make it work while also being coworkers. I wish you the best, you guys sound pretty cute together :)

He could just be shy! You never know until you ask him. As for being co-workers, it happens. Just act professional and confront your boss before it happens. Life moves on, you'll probably move on from different jobs at some point! So give it a try - good luck!

Don't go down that road girl. Dating a co-worker is such a bad idea, I know, I've done it twice and you'd think I'd learn my lesson the first time. If he's hot and cold, that sounds a lot like me. One minute I can be into someone, the next I'm over it. He could be like that. He might not know what he wants just yet, so don't get your heart involved.

I've been dating my coworker for over 1 and a half years, and we both still work together.

When he's acting weird, confront it right in the moment. "Is somethin wrong?" "Hey, you're acting different, you okay?" Something like that. If he doesn't seem to wanna talk about it, back off with saying a "Hope it'll be okay" or "Well you know how to contact me if you need to!" Show you care while givin him his space.