So she sent me a friend request like a few weeks ago, and honestly, i just find her annoying, one of the reasons why i didnt accept it at first. Also she had a weird smell to her, like not a havent-showered-in-a-week smell, but idk. And we dated in highschool, like i think i was in 9th or 10th grade, i dont even remember. So it was well over 5 years ago.

So I accepted it the other day and she tried to have a conversation with me, and I really want to talk to more people, but unless its one of my partners, my parents, or my best friend, i have no interest/little motivation to talk to them. I didnt want to seem uninterested, but thats just how I am with my current mental and emotional state.

Anyways, I wish I hadnt accepted it, but I cant exactly block her now..

I can somewhat relate to this. Although it's not involving an ex, a girl I was best friends in highschool with was going through some hard times from what I hear. Although I was left jaded by that friendship, I figured it'd be good for me to just forgive her and rekindle the friendship while being mindful of not getting close again. I was gonna be the one sending the friend request, but as I looked at her profile I was reminded of the things she did to me, and it was very apparent that she hadn't changed in the 4 years I knew her. I still wish her well, and she was important to me once upon a time, but things change. I didn't send her the request. Had I been in your situation (but instead me actually sending the request) and felt as disinterested as I assume I'd be, I wouldn't necessarily go out of my way to unfriend or block unless I had a good reason to (being creepy/confrontational/rude/whatever). If you aren't interested in speaking to her often and she annoys you, then don't waste your time or respond later if you're up to it. Accepting a friend request isn't like some major commitment, at least to me it isn't. :P

just delete her

shrugs.

really not that big of a deal honestly. its facebook i think she will survive

I get that, but I had also blocked her for many years and I was going through my blocked list and I couldnt rememeber why I blocked her, so I unblocked and yeah. ill probs do it in a week or so, its nbd

Yeah I would just delete and block her to save you the trouble. If you talk to her it'll probably give her false hope and big an even bigger headache.

ya just sounds to stressful on your end. block her completely.

My best guy friend at the moment is a guy I dated for a year. In ym case we were better as friends but if beings friends with your ex will only result in unresolved feelings, it might be best t stay clear for a while.

I'm not in any terms with my exes. Just like I don't talk to anyone who just annoys me. I think you should just block her.