Title says it all, really. It seems like all the queer girls are always in relationships except me, and it's so frustrating :(

It can be hard, especially because I feel like its hard to go up to women and start hitting on them, and then find out that they are not lesbian. Ive found most success on dating apps like OKCupid, it finds people in your area that are single and lesbians :)

I am bisexual and currently trying to meet other women. One thing that I find really damn hard is figuring out how to convey interest without scaring away a potential friend if they turn out to be straight. And flirting in general. I'm embarrassed to admit that I am clueless as to how to flirt with the same sex.

I'm a panromantic ace, and it's just hard to date in general, since most people have a decent sex drive and an expectation of sex in a relationship.

aaayeee. just date me.

Not having this exact problem but I know the feels. I'm bisexual and feel as tho people will stone me for so much as mentioning it. I live in a very very strange country, we were one of the first to legalize gay marriage, and yet with people my age its like you cant be bi or gay you have to be straight. I'd really like to have some actual experiences with the same gender rather then the teen fumbles, but I wouldn't even know how to go about it. And my situation gets even more confusing the more you get into it (hard to explain so I wont haha)..

Anyways I just wanted to say, I know the feeling of having trouble finding dates within your own gender, lets hope it doesnt stay this way!

I live in the middle of nowhere, people in my age range seem to move to college or the city.

Online dating sucks. I don't have Tinder since I don't own a smart phone but I'll browse through POF and OKcupid. There is a small amount of gay/bi women on those sites in 15 mile radius, and those that are either have children -nothing wrong with that, I just know I don't want children- or they're looking for a 3rd for "fun times", or looking for a girl for herself even though she is already in a relationship and finally: I'm simply not attracted to them. There were 5 women in a 15 mile radius on one of those sites so it's not just me being picky. God, I'm lonely...

Not talking from my own experience because I´ve never looked for a lesbian relationship, but I have a friend who recently accepted she was gay and I´ve been seeing her cry for like a month. She´s been having one disastrous short relationship after the other, and complaints about the community being more complicated than just dating guys...

I've found a great way to meet non-straight folks is to get active with a local LGBT+ group or charity, or go to queer-friendly events, or join a sport which attracts a lot of LGBT+ people (like roller derby). Whenever I've tried to look specifically for a relationship I've gotten frustrated or hooked up with idiots, but meeting people when I was doing other stuff has always worked out well for me.

This is probably cliche, but I end up meeting my current gf when i gave up on looking for one. And I past more time alone than with anyone, it really stinks and since I never liked to go out or do anything in special, and the internet ones were just gross, but eventually that girl who kind of like the same things will show up.

But yes, I've felt like that so many times I lost count, just... don't give up!

I'm on my third relationship. She's my classmate sister, and while this feels a bit weird at first, the "dating my classmate sister thingy", I got used to it. x3 We aren't that much similar tho... I wished she liked to play world of warcraft :p

My suggestion is basically, don't go to places you don't like or don't feel comfortable with, just keep going to places you like and keep doing the things you like to do, she should show up! Also, internet can be good, facebook groups about x thing you like to do is a good start, cause there should be people who like the same things you like in those groups, so who knows? :3

OkCupid is how I met my girlfriend.

I feel like lesbians have a weirder time with dating because there's always that blur with straight girls sometimes where we feel like we don't really know if someone is gay or not. (My girlfriend jokes that I don't have a gaydar and I wouldn't know if someone was hitting on me if they hit me over the head.)

It's a weird jungle out there but best of luck!!

Unfortunately we missed the term known as "breeding season" and now we will suffer alone all winter. :c

Me too.

This ^^ exactly what happened with me, been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years now :)

I met my bae at a gaymer convention (GX3 if anyone is in the San Fran area in early December this year) so I can confirm this works lol. But yeah, before that I was just moping around my apartment because there were no LGBTQA+ events in my area. Even at this day and age, lesbian relationships often only happen via word of mouth/recommendation or online dating u_u or you know, if you're in a crowded room, you can always shout "You're a wanker number 9" and all the girls who look up and smile at you are definitely homo la homo~ :P