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Oct 28, 2014 11 years ago
lucidpearl
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(I apologize if I put this in the wrong category or something, I haven't been on here a while, so...)

Okay, well... I have really bad social anxiety, and I just started high school, so I'm very stressed out... I want to make friends, but I freak out whenever I try to talk to people.. q - q (like, if someone talks to me, I end up either running away, or hiding, and crying. dies) Another problem I have is that most people (possibly... I don't know, since I don't talk to people.) don't like the kinda stuff I like, and I only really get along with people that have similar interests as me. (I like (more like obsessed with) anime/manga, vocaloid/utau, making ocs.)

I've had social anxiety most of my life, I think... or at least starting in 5th grade. (I also do go to therapy, but they don't really help with anything, honestly.) (I possibly (most likely) have Aspergers' syndrome, so... just saying.)

Oct 28, 2014 11 years ago
Skylar
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Berry Swirl

- I also had crippling social anxiety most of my life. When I started high school, I had no interest in making friends. At least that's different for you... You're trying.

When I did start trying to make friends 2 years ago, I would always freeze and have panic attacks when I attempted to talk. When I eventually started therapy, my anxiety got worse.

At the advice of my therapist, I started taking medication to control my anxiety last year. Since then, I've made several friends, had a few boyfriends, and can talk to people without wanting to run and hide in a corner. Is medication something you have considered?

Oct 29, 2014 11 years ago
Dandelina
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I agree with star_cherry's recommendation of talking to your therapist about trying new treatment methods. Also one thing you have to keep in mind is that you don't have to have a lot of common interests to get along with someone. If I could tell my teenaged-self one thing, it would be to stop taking my self-image so seriously and not worry about what people think of my choices. Don't be afraid to reach out to someone you think could be a friend.

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