Well I need to vent and I love all you guys, yes I'm not a people person, I am just awkward around anyone, but with my friends on here I feel more comfortable and would spend all day talking with you then with anyone else face-to-face. :)

SOOO..this guy that mom so wants me to give a chance im just gunna say screw its not worth it. iv been TRYING my HARDEST to get to know him and talk to him but its like he shows no effort at all. NONE like now its just one word responses. Im the one who types him first cos im taking my moms advice cos she said he was a nice guy, im trying at least. and when I asked if it was alright to move the movies so i could get to know him better its like he was trying to make me feel bad "oh its like that I see" "yea maybe it isnt a goood idea with us being so much alike" ugh, im trying, I just dont like jumping into it without knowing nothing about it first

He tried flirting with me to through typing(at first) and I keep shaking it off cos I dont want to sound rude, but I dont feel comfortable with flirting. <-- My flirting, right on point.

I'm 20, and I do not want a relationship. I am happy the way I am now and I don't feel the need at all to start dating. Yes even though my depression and anxiety can get to me at times, I also have times where I feel at peace with myself, and I feel that adding a relationship to that would ruin my happiness. I don't mind being friends though:)

Whoever takes the time to read all my rant I :)

PS. I'm loving gifs right now lol

[spoiler=pings hope you dont mind:) @ [/spoiler]

Men are only good for one thing.

They have toys for that.

The end.

I'm smiling like a dork haha thanks xD I say the same thing to my parents i'm just like its not like I want kids or anything either so guys have no use to me lol

What's that cute brown haired chick from out of your gifs?

I don't really know what to tell you though I mean it sounds like your mom means well but she shouldn't really be pushing you into some guy if you aren't really wanting to do that but from what it sounds, maybe she just thinks/hopes that it would make you a little happier. Can't blame her for that but even though it would mean having to speak up and be confrontational you should let her know how you feel about it. That you're at a point in your life where there just isn't time for that right now, she will just have to understand and there's no reason you can't be friends with said dude. Become great friends and who knows maybe it would become more one day when you're ready.

Funny thing is when I met my husband online we were 100% just friends, there was no flirting or anything like that I was one of the dudes and I'm not even sure how we ended up together lol

Your little black cat pic looks just like my kitten Loki ^_^

Thanks for the ping :D! Omg, I used to think the same way x,D I just think that you'll meet the right person. It sounds so cliche, but it's true! I met this guy. At the beggining he was that kind of "unreachable" guy. Handsome, popular, friendly, surounded by people and good at sports. I really didn't cared about him lol. But we started talking, discovered we had a lot of things in common, we like anime, same games, same music, same food, and he often talked to me about my art! He even started saying to his friends "hey, this girl draws amaaaaazing, like her fb page!" He conffesed his feelings to me, that he liked me, and at tht time I wasn't interested. But time passed and now we are together x'3

BUT WELL OMG. MY POINT IS. If you feel nothing towards that guy, keep a friendship, if you just don't think you could even be friends with him, meet other people! I HATE going to parties, and have anxiety dissorder so I'm awful at meeting new people :'D I totally get you at that point! But... Ehm... I'd say socialize but I'm not good at that so I have no idea of how to help you omg kill me NOW.

I just had to read, because of your title.. I feel like that a lot!

Eh, this guy sounds like a douchebag tbh. I think that if he was more on your level, of like who you are and what you want in life, this friendship/getting to you know you thing would actually be a nice experience.. (and it should be!) And it doesn't sound like he is in the same place. From what you write he comes across as a bit pushy. Idk, i could be totally off base but he doesn't sound like you at all! Even though he said you were too alike? To me, him saying that, is kinda passive-aggressive.. like maybe he thinks that if he says something that will make you think >he< doesn't want to get to know >you< that maybe you will feel guilty and cave into stuff you're not comfortable with. Getting to know someone should be easy, if you click, you click! It shouldn't feel forced, it should make you feel happy. :) If it doesn't, it's probably just not right at the moment. He might not like it, your mom might not like it, but what's the point in trying to force something that isn't there? nothin. Might as well do something that does make you happy! and if the timing is right in the future, so be it, it's nothing that you should feel pressured into or worried about. :)