I feel like a failure...i've been trying so hard to keep this one person happy but everytime i just make him more upset and it breaks my heart... Me and this person have known each other for quite some time now and i love this person with all my heart i really do! i just cant seem to make him happy... He's been having alot of stress lightly cuz of school and home issues so he's been kinda taking things out on me if i do just one little thing wrong and it makes me feel like its all my fault I just found out that i'm suffering from depression and i have been for about 3 years so all of this is really getting to me and i just don't know what to do anymore...

I feel so lonely right now i just need someone to talk to...

Awww Bou... I know how it feels x.x I know that yo're attached to that guy but if he treats you like this and makes you feel like this... Maybe it's time for... you know :/

Its not all the time tho its just when i do something wrong since i have actually been starting alot of fights with him lightly cuz i've just been so scared of losing him... I've been acting so stupid with him lightly i just really don't know what to do anymore!

Yeah, I know... But do you think he really loves you if he makes you feel so bad? He may have some issues but don't you think that he shouldn't let out all of his stress on you? how long can you take it? :/

Yes hes just under alot of pressure right now cuz of everything that's going on He just said that hes really sorry for all the mean things hes said to me

But what if it will be happening over and over and over again? x.x

i understand how you feel, i've been with my sweetheart for two years now and he has a very short temper, which of course doesn't help when things turn to worse. thankfully, we're able to sort disagreements or conflicts out, or just whenever one of us gets hurt by the other we usually apologize which will usually solve it. however, there are a lot of times when i'll say or do something dumb that i didn't think through that comes out unintentionally hurtful, or he'll be having a bad day and i'll make a small mistake and he'll get super agitated with me about it. but we always work through it, which is what i think you two should do.

i think you should have a quaint conversation with him, and explain to him how much you truly care for him and that you want to help soothe him through his stress, but that you've been having troubles with helping and you've noticed that it just seems to make things worse. you could let him be aware that from time-to-time he'll sometimes say hurtful things to you when you've only made a simple mistake, and that it's really bumming you out and that you don't appreciate him taking his anger out on you. if you let him know how you've been feeling, i'm sure he'd understand. just make sure not to attack him or make it seem like he's being targeted, since he could get defensive and that wouldn't help anything.

couples will always fight and often get hurt in the process, but what's really important is being able to settle the conflict and apologize and get through it.

Thank you so much for your suggestion! It helped out alot we're both much better and he now knows how hard i try to make him happy Thank you so much once again!

you're very welcome, and i'm glad things are better! let me know if you need any other advice, and i hope your boy starts to feel better.

Ok and thank you once again!