Today is my birthday, yay, and ever since I graduated, my only and best friend kind of stopped talking to me or asking me to hang out. She only goes to college a state away, but we snapchat a lot and usually I hate her snaps because its her having all this fun and drinking and smoking.

Anyway, I'm like 90% sure shes going to forget today is my birthday and that really bums me out :/ I mean, my parents and I took her to Disneyland after we graduated, and paid for her Lady Gaga concert ticket. I guess I'm a better friend to her than she is to me, and that really hurts :(

I dont know what I should do if she doesnt talk to me or atleast send me a snap that says Happy Birthday, it doesnt take too long -sighs-

Happy Birthday! I hope you have a really great day! How old are you going to be?

And if I can be totally honest here, I think you might need to forget about this friend. Someone who uses you like that isn't worth it 99% of the time. I had a friend just like that and dropped her. I'm a lot better off with my other friends. And also...drinking and smoking? Both are gross and really bad for you. Neither is anything to be jealous of. You're a much cooler, much healthier person for not doing those things. As for what you should do if she doesn't talk to you, why don't you snap her? It does works both ways, does it not? Then just kind of mention offhand how your birthday is going and see if she says anything about it. If she doesn't...you have your answer.

Thanks, I'm turning 19, and it wasnt that great because im sitting a lone in my room crying :( i dont want to sound spoiled or anything idk, but my parents didnt get me anything because they didnt know what to get me. And then we went to the mall and I told them what I wanted and they said it was too expensive. And this is totally the last straw with her. I want desperatly to snap her, but I want her to remember on her own. And only one person said happy birthday on my facebook wall, and it was her best friend. Im just so done with her and how much shes hurt me

Happy Birthday! I know what it feels like to have a friend like that. :c I hope it gets better!