Sometimes I catch myself having doubts about my awesome relationship. I love my boyfriend. He's also my first serious relationship. I had one before him but it really din't work out. My current boyfriend gives me lots of attention, kisses me lots, and chooses my well being over his. I love him to death however I get doubts because I wanted to live by myself for so long. I had to move in with him because I lived with a friend by ourselves but the owner of the house suddenly decided to sell the place so he let me move in to his place with his family (awkward..). I just sometimes feel like i'm not going to be able to do what I want to do as if i'm limited now. Sometimes I feel I moved too fast moving in with him as this is basically my first relationship. Anyway i'm at peace with not doing anything right now haha. Had any doubts about your boyfriend, fiance, or husband? tell them here :D i'd love to hear them

I don't think any of us have never had doubts.

When my bfriend and i moved in together it wasn't totally by choice either. We didn't HAVE to move in, but circumstances made it simpler to do so, it was economic and other reason, rather than just simply "we love each other so lets live together."

Also, its totally natural to wonder "what if" - as long it doesn't consume you, its not a big deal. If you're thinking that on a daily basis and feeling like you have no choices at all, that could be a problem. But occasionally wondering what else might be out there is normal.

My boyfriend and I moved in together way too fast, within 4 months of dating because of similar circumstances, we both needed a place to go and thought hell, why not together? I had no doubts at the very start but a few months in they started jumping out. We've been together about 7 years now (with a messy break mixed in there) and I STILL have doubts lol. Our whole relationship went way too fast though, we had a baby barely a year after getting together. Now that I'm older and I can look back I know we never should have done it and I do feel like I was held back a lot by it. My relationship situation seems way different than yours though, it sounds like you have a really great guy, I really hope he stays that way. Mine started out like that but the longer we were together the more distant and neglectful he started to get. I think in relationships absence makes the heart grow stronger, and when you live together it's far too easy to take each other for granted.

Again, it's different depending on the circumstances and particular relationship, but that's the experience I had with it.

Oh and living with him and his family is totally different than living just you and him. :) If things are good in even that awkward situation you may be on of the lucky ones and have a great future with this guy. In the end though, if your feelings to go out on your own stay strong, it's definitely something you should do when you are able. Everyone should experience life on their own at least for a short time, imo.

I think everyone has the occasional doubt , it's totally normal. :)

I sometimes wonder if I'm good for my boyfriend. That's a doubt I have every few months or so. :P

Me and my husband-to-be probably moved together too fast. In fact, we did. In the middle of it all I had a mental break down and told him we were on a break. It got messy (some sneaky hawk of a girl who'd been jealous of what we had for years and years snuck in and preyed on his vulnerability) but we worked through that. We've pretty much always "lived together". After six months of dating, he moved into my parents house with me. We lived there until recently and we now own (are renting) our own home. We didn't mind living with my parents. It got tense at times (as we were sleeping in the dining room!), but we made it work and are happier than ever with wedding planning etc.

Mainly it was the rocky beginning. Ex-boyfriend drama for me and no experience of a relationship with him... But if you can make it work, then he's probably a keeper. I gave up a lot of my "dreams" by getting with him, but when I'm settled and not saving for a wedding / mortgage, then I will continue those dreams, including travel etc. I'm not sad about it, I've just put it on hold.

Good luck living with the 'rents! It's not ideal but honestly, if you make it work, you will be a really strong couple at the end of it when you get your own place. :)

I had doubts a lot in my first serious relationship, i basically started sweeping them under the rug, really it was a sign we were not compatible at all. I thought my first boyfriend was the guy I wanted to spend my life with at first but really I did not know what i wanted in a partner. We broke up and after that I just dated a bunch of different guys, no serious relationship, and then discovered my ex wasn't what i really needed in my life. I'm in a better relationship now with a man I have no doubts about at all. I basically learned to trust my instincts.

doubts are only human, people have them. just have fun. dont move in get married to soon and all is well..