Under Achievements you can claim your earned Titles but some of the ones I've earned do not show up in the User Options / Forums Options. It says I've earned "Winters Coming" but it doesn't show up in order for me to change to it.
It's under site preferences in the forum options tab. c:

Exactly - under the forum option tab you find User Options / Forums Options and this does not have what Achievements say I've earned.
Every title that you have earned from here should be listed in the forum options --> forum titles.

I know this BUT under Achievements it lists all the titles I've been give - and the one I would like to change to (that I have) is not listed there. This is my problem
Are you positive? If it's a cruise title, those are a little oddly named.

- Copied to show you This page will award you titles for achievements that you have already got. We are going through them now, to give you titles that you should have earned... Subeta Benefactor has a title... given! Plushie Collector has a title... given! Trading Card Collector has a title... given! Beanbag Collector has a title... given! Making a living has a title... given! Making a living has a title... given! Survivor has a title... given! Strong Pet has a title... given! Speedy has a title... given! Filled Wardrobe has a title... given! Filled Wardrobe has a title... given! Melody's Little Helper has a title... given! Kiss a User has a title... given! Denied! has a title... given! Pumpkin King has a title... given! Super User! has a title... given! Pumpkin Deleter has a title... given! Gourmand has a title... given! Cheer Up, Kiddo! has a title... given! Shoulda put a ring on it has a title... given! Great Sense of Direction has a title... given! You Can't Tuna Fish has a title... given! Life's a Beach has a title... given! Winter is Coming has a title... given! Shifting Sands has a title... given! Shadow Puppets has a title... given! Heart of Darkness has a title... given! National Treasure has a title... given! Mountains Majesty has a title... given! The Consumerist has a title... given!
You should now have all of the titles that you have earned :)
The one I want is not the only I can't find listed and yes I do know how to scroll - if I could have copied that page trust me I would have just to show you.
... And you're going for which title?

scroll up Yes, under the User Options / Forums Options.
I see I missed that. Sorry, long evening.

Winter is Coming Complete the tour of the Arctic Frost within 72 hours of its release.
Title: The Snowman
You can definitely change to it then c:
Umm, are you trying to tell me something like "The Snowman" is the actual title for "Winter's Coming"?
Thank you, wise and gracious lady!
Haha, you are very welcome, fine maiden. :')
& Thank you so much for the tattoo sheet! ; 3 ;
You're very welcome! Do wish they had kept the title as "Winter is Coming" - it would work out perfectly for my Avatar minus the Morostide trappings, LOL.
Forum TItles are downright weird and irregular, it isn't just that particular Achievement that does that, The Achievement name, and the Forum Title that goes with it are sometimes the same, sometimes a little different, and sometimes (like this particular one) completely unrelated. Also, the name of the Forum Title that you have to pick in your dropdown box may not match either the Achievement name or the actual text as it appears on your HA.