Marijuana. Just throwing it out there. Anyone agree?

And my parents are filing for bankruptcy (and possibly starting the long divorce process) today. As if my mom can take care of herself with all the chemo. As if my dad makes enough to support himself. As if they don't really love each other.

LMAO MARIJUANA?! REALLY?! I was gonna say giant sunflower seeds lmao!

I am sorry about your situation. I have been through many similar things like this. I am sorry :( if you need help or someone to talk to then go ahead and message me. I love to hear people talk and love to help anyone I can. <3 Just know their are people out there who care about you ^_^

Taste and smell are connected, and the taste of pumpkin seeds reminds me of the scent of weed. LOL.

It's nice to have people to talk to. I can't really talk to my parents about it lol.

Lol I have never heard of a scent tasting like something ^_^ I love it!

Yeah most people can't or they don't feel comfortable enough in talking to the ones that raised them. I know I had that problem. My parents have divorced, remarried, and I have been through verbal and mental abuse on one end. I know how it is to question parents, but all you can do is be there to support them when they need it. They did after all bring you in to this world ^_^ Your mom sounds like she is going through some hard times but don't disrespect your dad for running away from it. Try to understand their views and if you really want to show them how grown up you are then talk to them about it. Maybe they can help you understand why this is really happening :/

Yeah people with no sense of smell don't enjoy food as much.

Well I talked to my dad about serious stuff last night. My mom is the one that wants the divorce. She's really an idiot. She says things without thinking and doesn't apologize afterwards. I love her though, so what can I do? She cheated on my dad when I was in like, 4th grade. Since then life has really been shit.

Well that sounds like a sticky situation huh? My step dad is like that. He snaps at the smallest things we do then does the exact same thing without thinking. Or he will say things that he does not mean all the time. If she can't apologize then does she at least feel remorse? Maybe talk to her about it. It may be difficult and she may throw a fit, but keep a good head about it. She could be acting this way because of any medication she may be taking or she may just not know how to take out her stress so she does on you and your dad. Also maybe she wants a divorce to protect your father. You never know.

She's always been like that. It's the way she was raised. She feels one thing, but acts a completely different way. She's got to feel remorse some time, but really doesn't show it. She's just a flat out bitch. I'll even tell her, "Hey mom, why are you being such a bitch today?"

Well then you really have a bad situation. I don't know what to tell you except maybe start to distance yourself from her. Spend more time with your dad or with your friends. That is what I do. I feel bad because I leave with my friends all day and leave my mom with my annoying step dad. That is why (like today for example) we go have girl days. I am taking her out on the town just to hang out and be away from my dad. Do stuff like that. If you are near college then it will be over soon. For example, I just have two months until I will be in college out of town. I just keep telling myself, two more months, two more months.

Yeah the problem with that is, I really love my mom, and I'm the only one who can take care of her.

Bleh...This is a tough one. Well, I guess this is a real test of your patience. If you can deal with her and taking care of her then you can take on the world. View this as a growing experience then vent to those who will listen (i.e. your dad, me, or anyone else you can talk to). That is the best way to handle it.

Yeah I used to have a therapist for this, but we're too broke now. I probably won't move out while going to college either.

Well don't look to far into the future. What happens happens. Don't turn bitter with the situation because then you may be the same thing to your children. Take it as it comes and learn along the way. You will turn into a wonderful person! Therapists are not really needed. They will listen and try to give advice but anyone can do that.

Therapists prescribe my meds, and I have a hard time without them. I'll try to do the best I can with the situation at hand, but it's hard with so much stress.

Ah, that kind of therapist. The one I had just made me talk and she gave me advice. Well, holy cow girl. I really respect you. You have so much against you yet you keep pushing. You will be the next president lmao I call it now!

LOL I'd hate to be president. So much work aaaagh. I have to keep pushing. If I leave my love will be alone.

Good! Positive attitude is the first step! Hang in there chica! <3

Yeah my mom keeps telling my dad he should move to California to "look for work." What the heck mom? There's work here.

I LOVE your new avi! I thought it was sunshine dust lmao Just keep supporting them. THey know what they are thinking in their heads

I've never made that comparison before lol. Although I do love both. Today some guy walked in my class though and he reeked sooo bad, I thought it was the smell of weed but it turns out it was just a really stinky cologne he was wearing v____v

lol thank you :)

Why...would someone wear a cologne that stinks? Aren't they supposed to improve scent?