I have a friend.

She comes over, sits on her lap top, ignores the world, and talks constantly to her friend. CONSTANTLY. I've tried to ask her to actually hang out with us, but she doesn't ever actually respect that. She plans to hang out with me. She tells me her plans with another friend didn't work out yesterday, so I offered them to hang out with us today. They "can't" so instead shes going to hang out with her other friend. Then, she said, "Well, I can still come over later..." Later means late tonight and I'll leave tomorrow morning. What is the fucking point of coming over then?

Honestly. I need real friends. People who care and listen to feelings. Friends who don't make me feel second best. I know I'm a really socially awkward person and I don't always say the right thing, but I deserve decent friends, damnit! d:

Do you have/had friends like this? Is it frustrating?

Ugh. ;s Those kinds of "friends" drive me bonkers. Everyone deserves a real friend, not a friend who only wants to hang out with you if Bob, Suzie, Sally, and Joe are unavailable. ;x

I had a friend exactly like that. I'm not sure if they're just oblivious to how they treat people or if they think we're just that stupid not to notice. You should definitely just stop offering to hang out (or accepting to hang out were she to ask you). That's what I ended up doing and we drifted apart, but there's no real loss from that. Actually, a win, because I got my peace of mind back haha. X)