ITS LONG, NO NEED TO READ IT I JUST NEED TO GET IT OUT OMG/ Okay i think i just need to rant bitch, so here goes, backstory

• Im breaking it off with my first boyfriend of three years. Its not 100% official yet, but he has been a monumental shit for the past year and I've been trying to hard to understand why, or help him through his rough patch, but its just not working and I can't take it anymore.
• Im moving to vancouver, so im stressed, because I also start school in like 2 weeks
• I also have family stuff going on. IN SHORT I AM STRESSED! so i obviously need and want as many people as I can have to lean on

SO I HAVE A VERY SMALL GROUP OF THREE FRIENDS. and they are my support triangle in all things.

• One of them, my closest one is at work camp currently. Normally i go to him as he is currently identifying as gay, so he generally has a really good perspective on both my side and boyfriends side of the issue. I can't obviously because he is at work camp, and I am in the city.

I decided, since closest friend, is out of town to hang out with friend B, because he needed his nails painted.(social experiment) Friend A hates friend B.. because he feels he is two faced(he was in high-school not so much now two years later)

I never hang out with friend B, but he needed help with his finger nails. We hit it off. Friend A asked how it went, I told him. He got all irritated and emotional and decided he was setting his phone to airplane mode for 4 weeks.

friend c is just kind of like : |

and thats pretty much all of it and i got it out. Dont get me wrong I care so much about friend A, but lord almighty I didn't know it was so easy for him to go into jealous panic mode, and his choice to set his phone to airplane mode for 4 weeks isnt exactly going to help him be the "best friend he wants to be"

i can think of lots of reasons he would go into jealousy panic mode, but i really wish he hadn't done it this week

TL;DR my friend is jealous and not okay with me having other friends, also, stress.

First, BREATHE! Take an evening to be alone and do what you like to do. Maybe its a Netflix binge or play some Skyrim (that's what I do when I'm stressed). Anything to take your mind off of your stress! Once you clear your head of all the negativity, you will be more likely to make better decisions on how to handle the jealous friend situation.

All I can really say, is let A get over it. If he is truly your closest friend and he wants to stay that way, he will come around. Having more than one person you spill your secrets to makes things hard. And for future reference, maybe don't tell him how well you made off with B? Gay men are WAY more jealous than girls (in my experiences) and some things just shouldn't be shared! Above everything, he may just be mad at himself that he wasn't the one to be there for you at that time and it's eating him up. You never know. Just ask him (when he turns his phone back on).

And sweetie, if this is the worst of your problems, you have it MADE! Good luck ❤