Who do you go to and why? How do you feel with the person?

Just please give me a brief description for me. Honestly, I want to know what kind of person to go to. I'm just in a fumble right now.. Please ping me, because this topic is kind of important to me. /:

Do you mean when you have problems and need to talk about stuff?

Oops, I should've been more clear, but yes. s:

No, that's what I figured but didn't wanna type it out in case I'd sound doofy.

For a long time I didn't really have a person. I get really nervous of burdening people or looking weak. I try to go to my boyfriend, but he is not always the best at helping and who do I go to when I have problems with him? Finally one day after I had gotten in a terrible fight with my boyfriend and I was so upset I didn't know what to do to myself I just wandered into my roommates room sobbing and laid on her bed and just unleashed everything. It was surprisingly easy for something I was so scared to do. I would just talk to a close friend. Even if you've never talked about something like this with them they're going to take you seriously and listen. It's scary but you will feel really happy when you realize it's not that hard to talk to people when you're upset

It really depends on the issue at hand. For example, if I just really need someone to make me feel better and comfort me, I'd probably go to my mom or a girl friend, but if I needed straight up no BS advice, I'd more likely talk to my brother. I feel good around both of them, since they're family and people I trust.

You are being a little vague, but I'd recommend someone know for sure you can trust to keep your secrets. It's also a good idea to take into account their personalities. You may love someone lots, but sometimes you need someone to listen rather than give opinions. I hope this helps and whatever is going on clears up soon! hugs

That's really good advice about taking into account of their personalities. I never really thought about it but it is pretty good advice. /:

Glad I could help. =)

if you're talking about going to people to talk to about problems and whatnot... i usually go to my boyfriend. he really knows how to put me in a better mood, and help me point out the positive things in the situation, to make it not as bad.

now unless i'm upset with him, or something he did, ect.... i usually just vent to my friend logan about it. he actually listens to me, and tries to help me as much as possible. he gives me the "boy's point of view" so i can understand from both sides of the story.