I know most sisters say this but i really hate my little sister i used to be almost best friends with her but now he is a FREAKING BRAT she even refuses to sit by me in church and when she gets mad he tells me thats i am a dumb**** and then she hits me. It gets worse she now refuses to sit by me at the dinner table and calls me names all the time i SWEAR WHEN I MOVE OUT I NEVER WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN but maybe if we could work things out it would get better what should i do?

Well, first you should identify the root cause of the problem. Why is your sister acting the way she is? What changed in your relationship? Being able to answer those questions will help you to find a solution. If you don't know why she's changed so much, try and get her to sit down with you and have a heart-to-heart. If she won't sit down with you, get another family member or a mutual friend to sort of "moderate" the discussion objectively.

It sounds like she's hit puberty and all the mood swings that go with it. Either that, or there's something going on with her that she hasn't told you or anyone else and it's making her act out. Try sitting her down in her room or yours, or anywhere alone, and calmly talk about what's changed

she had hit puberty before she started acting like this

The mood swings of a teenager lol. Your best bet is to just sit her down and talk with her as calmly as possible, find out what's changed.

I agree with . If she's a teenager she's probably just moody and going through a lot of life changes or w/e. But you definitely do need to identify the problem rationally: have you done something to have her treat you like this? Are you treating her badly instead of making an effort to talk to her and ask what's wrong? Have you asked her why she's upset? Instead of calling her names perhaps you need to try and have a conversation with her and tell her that you don't want to argue anymore. If things get worse you should definitely involve your parents- her hitting you is definitely NOT okay. She can be as mad as you as she wants, but being physically violent and calling you names is just crazy... your parents never stop her...?

Honestly I have a little sister who just turned 16 so I definitely get being impatient. Sometimes she's a HUGE spoiled brat and it just makes me rage and I feel like I hate her, but at the end of the day she's my sister and we have to solve our problems calmly. She may be going through a rough time so just try and talk to her to see what's up.

I may say I hate you But remember I will always care I may say Im sick of you But for you I will always be there If anyone says anything bad about you It will be the last word they speak Because you are my younger sister And for you the best I seek We have been through a lot I know this is true We have seen the worst of people And we helped each other get through I love you little sister And for you I am always here I will fight for you little sister And be there for you for all your years

I don't know very much about your situation, or the relationship you had with your little sister before, but I myself am a little sister and have had plenty of conflict with my big sister over the years. For a long time, I really resented her. She's really bossy and treats me like a child all the time, even though she's only 3 years older than me. I know that part of that comes from our situation growing up; my parents were divorced and my mom worked long hours, so she took on the role of mother a lot of the time for both me and my brother. When she got into high school, however, she started going to a boarding school three hours away, and then after high school she went to college. I did a lot of growing up and changing during that time; needless to say I am no longer a child (I'm 20), and since she spent so long away from me I don't feel like she has the right to comment on my life choices the way she does because she really doesn't know me very well anymore. Like I said, I really don't know what your situation with your sister is, but it could just be that she's reacting to in a negative way because she feels like you don't respect her or understand her. Of course I don't think you're doing that on purpose, just like I don't think my sister is trying to be a bitch on purpose, but if you aren't communicating with her she could be misunderstanding you. Or just not appreciate your input because she thinks you're trying to condescend her. It's also quite possible that SHE doesn't even know what the problem is. I would just give it some time. Don't write her off completely because she still has a lot of growing up and finding herself to do, and I'm sure she would appreciate it if you're understanding about her situation. Just try and let her know however you can that you love her and you want to be there for her and that she can come to you when she needs you; I'm sure she'll appreciate that a lot some day.

trust me, once you move out your relationship with your sister will be so much better. My little sister was similar to yours when I was at home, I have now been out of home for like 3 years, and we actually get along and hang out.

well i dont know whats wrong with her i want to help mend our relationship I am 4 years older then my sister and I would never treat her like a child over that age differance what do you guys think I could do to get her to like me?

As most of us have said you have to sit down and talk with her and identify the problem before you can work on fixing it. You can just 'make her like you'. You have to work for the relationship to last

Like others have said perhaps she is going through a phase. You should talk to her but if that does not help perhaps she needs some space. If you try to ignore what she says she may lose interest. Maybe she is just trying to get attention but does not know how to get it.

Thanks guys ill have a talk with her