So, my friend went to this guy's party the other night. Let's just call my friend.. Billy. and the guy who threw the party.. John. And they didn't know each other prior to the party. Well, there was lots of alcohol at this party and my friend Billy drank maybe 3 beers (not sure, my brother was there, not me). Then he went outside with some other guys while my brother stayed inside. But next thing my brother knows someone's yelling "Eww Billy threw up on me!" So my brother runs outside to see what's going on and sees Billy looking and acting very out of character. He says to him "Billy just chill out" So Billy lays down and my brother goes back inside. Maybe 10 minutes later, my brother hears everyone yelling "COPS!!" and everyone scatters(because everyone was under the legal drinking age of 21) except for my brother, Billy (now passed out), John, and 2 other guys. Cops are checking Billy out and they feel like it's best if they take him to the hospital. So, they take him away and question John and my brother and the other guys about what happened. All they knew was that he had a few beers. The cops make all of them throw out the rest of the alcohol. It turns out that my friend, Billy, took something else while he was at that party and had an allergic reaction. He almost died and was in the hospital all night long. The next day, (evidently word got around that Billy was the one that called the cops) so John tags Billy and posts on twitter (and I quote) "Im fucking coming for you bitch". Please excuse his language. But I tagged John and commented saying "He almost died. He had an allergic reaction. He finally came home from the hospital at 6am this morning." This is what made me like over the top mad: He tags me and replies "I don't give a shit". That's wrong. I understand he ruined your party by calling the cops, but he's a human being too and his life was on the line. I need your help, people of Subeta. I want to say something back to him that will give him chills. I need your help to help me come up with a burn that will have him speechless. Please feel free to post how this would make you feel if you were in my shoes, Billy's shoes, my brother's shoes, or even John's shoes.

PS: I'm sorry it's a lot to read

There's nothing you can say to this kid that he isn't going to ignore with a snide remark, most likely another I don't give a shit. You'll end up frustrated and he'll think he's clever, so don't bother confronting him.

However, there is one thing you can do. Take a screenshot of his comment and present it to whatever school he is attending (assuming he does attend a school). Make sure you note that he not only has an issue with under-aged drinking, but that he is also participating in the cyber harassment of someone who at the moment was recovering from a near death experience.

If all goes well, the school won't tolerate cyber bullying, and his parents won't tolerate the under-aged drinking, and with luck he'd end up in counseling where he will hopefully learn the merits of caring about others and not harassing them over minor things like parties that weren't even supposed to happen being ruined.

Hhmm. I've never thought of it that way. That is definitely something to consider. Alright I just screen-shotted it. But could the school do anything about it if both guys do not attend it? And what if his parents don't care what he does?

I personally wouldn't waste my time replying. That kid is an immature asshole, and there's nothing you can really do about that. I'm curious to know if he really had an allergic reaction or if it was drug related, not that I'd judge, but I'm just wondering what would have caused the reaction. Either way, whatever happened, I'm not gonna pry cause it's not my business. Lastly, the only thing you should do is report what that guy is saying to the police if he's threatening your friend.

Most likely the schools would be unable to help in the event the person who made the comments does not attend their school. I'm not sure if they'd be able to get into contact with the school he does attend, most likely not. If his parents don't care and you can't rely the message to whatever school he goes to, or if he doesn't even go to school, you're left with few options.

At that point it'd be best to, instead of dealing the jerk, to send positive messages to the guy being harassed. Suggest that he finds someway to sever connection with the jerk, either through blocking or switching accounts. That way you'll have stopped the bullying, if not the bully.

Good luck and don't let this guy upset you, some people just don't deserve the energy it takes to be angry with them, they also aren't worth the energy it'd take to forgive them either. Just remember their names and file them under the no good or jerks category in the unfortunate case you have to deal with them again.

I agree, yes he is. And as far as I know, he did have an allergic reaction (that's what his dad told me) although I did not ask to what he was allergic. It could have been to a drug he took. But if for some reason, his dad lied to me, then the only thing I can think of is if he took an opiate(pain killer) of some sort. Because if you mix it with alcohol, it will kill you. You will pass out and you won't wake up.

If his dad lied, it's probably because he'd like to keep it private. But if you mix painkillers and alcohol, you're not going to without a doubt die. Not that I'm condoning lol.

Thank you. That is good advice. Because I don't know this guy at all. He might have already graduated from high school. I'm not sure. But my friend has and he's not in college either. So he doesn't go to school at all. And as far as sending my friend positive messages, I pretty much already have because he saw that I stuck up for him and he thanked me for doing so. But I will continue to show him that, you know, someone out there cares about him. (and also that you don't have to drink to have fun because I personally do not believe in drinking lol)

Yeah, I could see if his dad didn't want anyone to know his son did some drugs. And If it's enough of both alcohol and pain killers, yeah it will kill you. But he could've just taken a little and made him really sick (hence the "allergic reaction"). I'm no doctor lol. I don't know exactly what happened to him or what he took, but I will ask him next time I talk to him. I'd like to hear his side of the story and what he was thinking when he decided to dial 911.

Well yeah, obviously if it's enough lol. But from the way you stated it before, it seemed like you thought it was pretty cut and dry. Yeah, just ask him yourself and he'll tell you if he's comfortable talking about it with you.

Oh, sorry maybe I should've worded things differently lol. I should've said could kill you not will. And I will ask him. and I hope he tells me because I'm curious to know.

I would screenshot the comment as suggested since he has made a threat of violence against Billy.

I would also advise that there are a range of drugs, not just painkillers, that are not supposed to be mixed with alcohol as they can increase the effect quite markedly. If he is on some form of medication then he now knows that it shouldn't be mixed with alcohol.