First off, I have only dated one of these guys. One happened last year(A); the other one I kind of wanted to date but it never happened(B).

So to start things off, I started to like A but he was dating someone at the moment, but we still talked. We became really really good friends really friends and eventually his girlfriend broke up with him (for other reasons, not because we were texting). Anyway, I eventually confessed to A that I liked him and he told me he liked me. He said he needed a week or so for air from his previous relationship and I agreed; his ex was bitch. But before the weekend was up, he asked me out, and of course, I said yes. We went to a competition and we had a really great time, and I kissed him for the first time. But the day after we got back, he said he wanted a "break". I let him have the beak, tho I kept telling him I didn't want to. He never got back with me, tho we kept in touch. He acted like everything was fine and dandy, and told me of all the girls he liked. He asked me to things I wasn't comfortable with, and I firmly said no. This year tho, more feelings came up for him tho I had previously gotten over him. Eventually, he asked me if I would go out with him. I don't even know why I said yes, but he told me after so that I had to keep it a secret. I eventually got tired of it and broke up with him; and immediately the next day he was practically together with another girl (of which he talked about during our entire relationship and he even talked about dating her). I haven't talked to him since and I've been messed up. Guy B is weird. He's mean to me and I know I shouldn't but I just really like him. Sometimes he can be the sweetest thing; but that's rare. Now, I think one of my best friends likes him even though she knows I like him. And they've both been quite the bitches towards me for the past month and they keep asking why I keep getting angry at them. If they want to date or something, that's fine by me. It wouldn't be the end of the world and I'd still have both of them as friends. But I know its not right for them to treat me like this.

... Basically, I don't want to date either guys. I just want them to know how much they've hurt me and for them to actually be sincere for once to me. Does anybody know how to tell some guys that 'show no emotion' that they are immature and hurtful?

i would simply just tell them exactly how you feel. if they have hurt you that much then why should it matter about their feelings towards what you have to say? just simply returning the favor really.

I really hope that you find the perfect boy for you soon x

, im really trying to think of a way to really tell them. it's kinda hard because my ex avoids me and claims he doesn't, so its kinda difficult. but thanks for the help and encouragement! :)