I've got a problem. I get jealous of the friends my boyfriend has that are girls. I know he loves me, and I love him too, so I don't understand why it bothers me so much. I trust him, I know he would never do anything to hurt me or our relationship. It just really bothered me when he told me he might be meeting her somewhere because none of his other friends are going. He wanted me to go with him, but I couldn't. Does the same thing happen to you? How do you deal with it? DX Ping me

If you're going to comment saying I'm being immature, then just leave because I don't wanna hear it, sorry.

I understand. My guy has a lot of girl friends and he is the kind to give hugs and say "i love you" to them. You know the type.

Like just today we were driving around and he was like "aww man..i miss lexi" one of his friends who he hasn't been able to see in a while. It's even worse cause i know they had a thing a while ago. But I also know, after he's told me (i didn't even have to say anything) that him and lexi are just friends so i just think that there is nothing wrong with missing an old friend. So that made me not jealous

The way I deal with this kind of stuff is just think of how much he loves you. Cause my boyfriend always makes me know that I'm the only one he needs and all that. Just think of all the time you spend with him and all the things you do together that they don't get to do.

You should also try to talk to him. Don't bring it up like the "jealous girlfriend", just be like i don't mean to be petty, but these things have been bothering me a little lately.." Hopefully he'll reassure you that you are the only one he wants to be with.

Thanks so much(: I usually do tell him about the things like that the bother me. Actually, I tell him everything that bothers me. He's my best friend(: It's just that one thing that was particularly bothering me last night. I'm okay with everything now, and thanks again for the advice! :D

Two of my friends had to break up because the girl was always bothered by how many female friends the guy had. XD;; I never really got that if you trusted the other person, but I guess I can't say I don't feel jealous when my girl has boys all over her (even if it's just her gay buddies joking around), so I can see where the agitation comes from.

Just keep in mind that he has you, and how much he must talk about you to those girls. When I'm jealous, I just keep in mind that all my gf talks about is me when we're not together; to the point that her school counselor asked if I was her boyfriend. XDDD

i think you should explore your feelings as to why you felt ''bothered'' with his actions. if you trust him yadda yadda, it would probably be a good exercise in self-reflection (not to mention future relationships) to pursue those feelings and attempt to reign them, instead of letting them control you.

there's a fuse beginning here.... and it's probably a good idea to make sure it doesn't continue to form.

Don't be bothered. He offered for you to go. You couldn't. He's not going to do anything. She's just a friend who had a vagina instead of a dick. I don't get it when people get upset about boyfriends being friends with girls. If your boyfriend is interested in being 'close' to his female friends why is he going out with you? Surely he could have a chance with them.

Just let it go, I have guy friends (I'm totally gay, my boyfriend is bi) and they always sleep round mine. But my boyfriend is never bothered by it. Stop being so worried ^^

Hey, you guys need to trust eachother. Does he treat you more then he does the other girls? You can be with him and talk to them

Could it be that you've got some self-esteem issues somewhere along the line? I get jealous too, and I know it's because I'm scared that this girl is going to be prettier/smarter/more intelligent etc than I am, and I won't match up.

You either trust him or you don't.

I know that feeling all too well, lol. Whenever a girl talks to my guy, I try my best not to think anything of it, but there have been occasions where the girls have flirted with him without really thinking about it. It's not really a matter of trust for me, but more like "omfg they need to step off, dumb bitches" because I trust him more than any guy I've ever been with, and he is not the flirting type from what I know of him. xD It's just more of an annoyance than anything.

But yeah, talking about my feelings with him (about this topic, or any topic really) can help with the stress. Getting it off of my chest and knowing that he knows what's on my mind can do a world of wonders. He can also offer reassurance that nothing bad will come out of it, and to just ignore the girls who act too "friendly" towards him. Just stay positive, and keep a good level of communication with him, and I think you'll be fine. =D