Hello, Subeta. It's been a looooong while since I've made an appearance. However, it's never too late! I have been with my boyfriend for four years now... and I can't get out of my brain that I feel as if I am more into girls. o.o Am I imagining it? Hahah... I'm not too sure what to think, but I could use some help.

Many thanks in advance... Alejandra

It's totally normal to question your sexuality. It can get really confusing... I know the feeling... But it's really important to be honest with yourself when it comes to stuff like this. When you notice the feelings try imagining yourself with girls, in whatever type of relationship you like, see if that seems satisfying and desirable to you. And don't try to stop those feelings or hide them when you feel like that- like that song from Mulan, be true to your heart. :P Maybe research some other sexualities? Some people say it's more of a scale or a spectrum, instead of simple gay, lesbian, bisexual, straight categories. You could be somewhere inbetween. Just reading about that kind of thing might help you decide? You could google "Kinsey scale" for example. And you can always play with the idea in your head for as long as you want before acting on it or sharing it with anyone in your life. Do what feels right!

Thank you for your response! I apologize that it's taken me so long to get back. I agree with what you are saying, completely. I admitted to myself about seven years ago that I was bisexual, but at this point, I feel as if I'm leaning more towards the female attraction side. I have been wondering for a very long time. Lol.

Sweetheart, I question my sexuality and gender on a daily basis. You're completely fine in thinking that. You may want to bring it up with the boyfriend, though. You're not cheating for having thoughts, but if you truly feel as if you'd be more comfortable with women, it's worth a chat.

Yes, it's true. I am no longer with him, and without a doubt, I am more attracted to women. A lot of it is the fact that I feel women are much easier to connect with emotionally. They have a sweet side that the men I've dated do not harbor. Thank you for your advice. :)