I've never told anyone about this, but I'm tired of denying it. I've always had a fascination with anthropomorphic animals since I was little. When I was 15, I was so alone and I created a world involving Sonic characters. My character was essentially a recolor of Tails. Over the years, she developed into something more original and now is a part of a different world. While I don't think about her world anymore due to me actually having friends and a boyfriend, I still sometimes wish her world was real and that I was her.

I've had the desire to grow fox ears and a tail (or two) for the longest time. Sometimes, I feel like I really have these features. I like art with humans that have animal features. It's not a fetish at all. I just really like the art.

I've been denying all of this for 10 years, thinking that it was just a phase. It's not going away, and I'm starting to think I should just accept this part of me. Can any furries give me any insight on accepting your fursona and about the fandom?

I'm not a furry, but yes you should accept that as part of you. It's what makes you, you. It makes you a unique and one-of-a-kind individual and you should be proud of that :) It took me a very long time to accept my quirks. I was miserable and lonely and I finally stopped caring if other people thought I was weird or if they liked me or not. I am much happier for it.

- Thank you for reassuring me! :) I've never had the freedom to express myself due to judgmental, abusive parents reacting negatively to me doing anything that didn't conform to their standards, so learning to accept myself is a major challenge.

I've learned to accept almost all of me, but the furry thing is hard. I guess the stigma against the fandom is ingrained in my brain. I think if I hang around some furries, I can learn to let go and accept this part of me.

Yes! There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you feel and your desires. You aren't hurting anyone. Corny, but be yourself. Because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind! Enjoy yourself C:

- Thank you! :) I'm starting to tell my closest friends, and they've been accepting of it. The real challenge will be with my boyfriend. I'm positive he'll accept it. But, I have a hard time opening up to him, because he's the one I care about most.

I totally understand! I'm sure he will accept you, and knowing that he accepts that aspect of you will definitely improve your relationship and make you feel better.

- Thanks! :)