I have this friend right he's been in my life for going on 8 years and up till last year we got along spectacularly there was no problems what so ever. And then the fighting started just stupid drunk arguments would eventually boil over into world war 3 we hAve both said and done terrible things to one another but we've always seemed to work through it. We kinda have to considering we are room mate's as well....one of our last fights was the worst I literally stayed awAy from my own home for 2 weeks to try and let the situation simmer down which it did we had been getting along Bette than ever up into tonight. ...I literally called him and he freaked out telling me to do me and he doesn't care if we live together don't loving talk to him he knows what I said which I haven't said anything wrong in my eyes I just can't handle this hot and cold shit and I don't know what to do

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".I literally called him and he freaked out telling me to do me and he doesn't care if we live together don't loving talk to him he knows what I said which I haven't said anything wrong in my eyes I just can't handle this hot and cold shit and I don't know what to do "

If the idea of this makes you roll on the floor laughing, then unfortunately there's no other advice I can give you.