i play another pet site & i completely understand it, but this site is completely different and hella confusing.

can someone help me out on what to do?

First off, what do you /want/ to do? :)

i'm not really sure. i'm trying to learn the site. :B i'm completely lost and new to everything. it's sort of overwhelming. c:

It's not that hard on here once you get the hang of it.There are quests to do each day Games and so on.Clothes for your avatar and toys for your pet/s

So the question is what do you really want to know.

what do you do on this site? are there pets? are forums the main thing here or...? like, what is the main focus/thing to do on this site?

There are lots of different things to do here! You can adopt pets (5 for a normal account), give them food and toys, colour them with potions and train them for battle. Battling requires patience and funds for training and buying weapons. You can collect many different types of items in special collections (plushies, beanbags, stickers, ...) or just hoard things you like in a gallery. c: You can chat on the forums or via comments / smail to specific people. You can also join a cult (basically a group or guild) and hang out with them. If you like buying / selling, restocking and putting things in your shop is the way to go. Quests are a great way to make sP (money) and don't take too much time. :) Some games are also good. Lots of people enjoy dressing up their avatar! There are thousands and thousands of wears to choose from, ranging from very cheap to super expensive.

Does any of that sound like you? I can elaborate on anything you have questions about. c:

Maybe this could help you get started :) What to do on Subeta

Have you gone through the newbie tutorial? The forum stickied FAQs will be helpful too. :)

thanks y'all ~ i'm trying to find my way around. it's really hard since i just left another petsite.

welcome to Subeta! There are a number of us who hang here in Help & Questions, so it's likely whatever question someone will be able to help you. Ask away if there's something specific that's confusing.

Subeta has a Help Desk, and there you can file a Ticket and get an official answer on almost anything. Unlike some other virtual petsites I have been on, this is quick and helpful.