So, there's this girl at my school. She runs after my bf like a f**kin jerk. Everytime when I'm not in school she runs after him and of course, she rubs it under my nose 'Oh yeah, me and your bf were eating together and went out oh yeah lololol'

First, I talked to my bf about this. He told me that she follows him everywhere and won't stop annoying him. Then, I talked to some friends in school. They said, that she 's flirtin like mad with him. She puts always her legs on his lap when she's sitting next to him and so on and so on. And I heard that she's only flirting with boys on our school who are in a relationship.

So, I talked to her on icq. I was so mad at her and told her she should stop running after my bf like a jerk OR ELSE. She was like 'omg are you crazy? I'm nott running after your bf!' But my bf and the rest of my school told me something different.

Your opinion on that?

You're right to feel pissed off and aggravated by the situation but if your bf doesn't have any intention on returning the affection then why should it matter?

If it really bothers you, you should tell your boyfriend to fix it. If you tell her to stop, it will only encourage her. If your boyfriend calls her out on it (perhaps being rude would help) then there's more of a chance she'll be embarrassed and stop the harassment.

He always told me that I don't have to worry about her because he loves me...so I didn't tell him to fix it. And I wanted to show that I can 'fight' for him and tell her she should stop it...

but I'm still mad. xD

You have every single right to be upset at her, and she has absolutely no right to fling herself onto him like that, especially when she's been told to stop. Persistent bitches are no fun. Have him say something to her. If that doesn't work, maybe getting the school to say something to her will make her quit? I know that if a guy tells a girl like that to leave him alone, it won't always work. I'd know this. Both of you just have to ignore her if she won't listen to you... don't talk to her, don't be around her, etc. and don't give her anything to feed off of. When she realizes she's not going to get anywhere, HOPEFULLY she'll back off. If you all weren't still in school, I'd suggest a restraining order... any adult who would go out of their way to stalk and harass another adult is deserving of a restraining order, but I'm not entirely sure if that would work for school-aged kids. Good luck, though! Like I said, I've witnessed this situation before... it's not easy to avoid, but I hope everything works out!

If she's annoying him so much why hasn't he done something about it himself?

Is this the same boyfriend that previously broke up with you after you created the thread bragging about ANOTHER girl who wants him but he's yours then you two got back together?

History tends to repeat itself!

It's your boyfriend's responsibility to tell her to back off. He is in a relationship with you, he needs to make that clear to her. If he is annoyed by her then that should be no problem.

By getting involved and saying things to her about it, you come off as insecure and jealous. :/

The worst thing is if it is the same one, I think I already gave advice on the other one. Which means my work here would be done, right?

The song, 'My Girl', crops to mind. Apart from he's a boy.

Two Words.. restraining order. ^_^ Surprisingly I've had similar conversations with a few of my guy friends. For the most part, guys don't take it seriously. It makes them feel flattered that someone else besides their girlfriends think they're attractive (in one way or another) but they DO tend to be dense sometimes.. my friend didn't know that having another girl flirting/flirting back was being hurtful to his gf (since some guys just don't really consider receiving attention bad) but when they can REALLY see how it bothers you, they usually do whatever makes YOU feel better.

This girl you have to deal with is just a slut, she wants what she can't have and if what you say is true, she wants only the guys in a relationship, she wants what YOU have, brings to mind "you want what you can't get". If she succeeds in getting the guy, she'll get bored and move onto the next "unattainable guy" which really sucks for you and other girls in your position.

GL with this situation!