I dunno if this'll help me at all but it's worth a shot.

So there's this girl, Sadie. And I guess we were kind of friends and stuff but she always thought of me as a BFF and I was kinda like 'ehhhhoheysadie.' you know? Like, I wouldn't hang out with her if I had the choice. But anyways, we were both friends with Brittany. And she's (Brittany) pretty much one of my best friends. And I've seen the way Sadie treats Brittany. She doesn't realize that Brittany is a complete different person and she takes things differently than Sadie and she acts differently and she gets hurt (probably) worse than Sadie. The way Sadie talks at (not 'to', 'at') Brittany really gets to me. And whenever Sadie's pissed at anything whether it be me, softball games, school work, etc etc, she takes it out on Brittany. And Brittany just sits there and takes it and acts like it's OK. It's almost like those cases you hear about where a woman's abused by her husband/boyfriend and she's always like 'Oh well he didn't mean it...' 'I still love him...' You know? This case, Sadie being the boyfriend. So anywho, I told Sadie about how I felt and she flipped out, accusing me of doing the same thing that I was accusing her of. And she keeps harassing me through texts and saying how I'm so fat and no boy would ever look my way and how Brittany likes her so much more than me and how she's sooo much better than me. And crap like that. I usually don't get affected by it that much, but the day she sent all of those messages to me I cried my eyes out for three hours. And Brittany hardly tries to tell her to stop. She doesn't understand how it's affecting me with the thoughts I've been having and the way I've been feeling and the way I've been talking. It's basically put me in a crash-course for disaster. I'm literally afraid of everything including myself. It's pretty much ruining my current life. So before the texts, the day before actually, I told Brittany that I told Ryan (Who is Jake's BFF; Jake = Sadie's crush) to tell Jake Sadie liked him. But I didn't. I just wanted to prove a point that Brittany tells Sadie everything. So Sadie threatened to end her friendship with Brittany if she didn't tell her what I told her. And so Brittany cracked and told her. That day after 7th period, I'm minding my own business at my locker & talking to Austin; the usual. Then out of no where Sadie comes up and checks me into my locker. I have a bruise on my knee the size of a softball. Butyeah. So I was going to go to the principal this morning, but he wasn't in. And so his secretary told me to come back tomorrow morning. &so I might. I called Sadie about two hours ago and told her that if she wants to be mature about it and talk about it to call me back. Obviously she didn't. Butyeah.. So any advice? D;

Oh. D: That really...sucks. I'd say ignore her, but in this case that seems impossible.

Yeah.. :/ I see her everyday in the hallway and everything, and since she's allllways around Brittany it's kind of hard. :c

here's what i don't get.....

how are you an authority on brittany's feelings? and why are you starting crap between them?

i dunno. i don't agree with getting knocked in the face... but i definitely think you should just mind your own business and let brittany take care of her own problems.

I'm confused here. You said that Brittany and Sadie had the relationship like that of an abusive spouse yes? Well, it seems to me that you are putting yourself in the same position as Brittany by letting Sadie get to you. You say that you want to help Brittany, but truthfully, you are hurting yourself instead of helping her.

Learn to be forceful, and don't let her walk all over you. She sounds like she's being really immature about it. You just have to be the adult in this tif.

Now, on another note, you said that she pushed you into a locker which caused bruising on your knees. You should have immediately reported it to the office whether the principal was there or not. is there not an assistant principal that takes over when the principal isn't there? If there isn't then you need to talk to your school board about that.

Oh and on an unrelated note, your font size gives me a head ache.

Eh... for one thing, you shouldn't have made up that lie just to "prove a point". That's just being immature. If you want to settle things between someone, have a talk with them and tell them what you think, and if they can't act right then they need to leave you alone. If they don't listen, tell an adult (like a teacher or the principal) that this is going on, and you want it to stop now. Don't do such silly things like telling lies like that... not only did that make you look stupid, and not only did it cause problems for you with Sadie, but you dragged Brittany in the middle of it. She didn't ask to be part of the "experiment", did she? Don't drag friends into these things, and don't do such stupid things next time. If you can't talk sense into her maturely, then take it to someone who might be able to... an adult who can handle the situation.

When you talk to that adult, tell them that Sadie treats Brittany poorly, and that it's starting to affect your life as well. Tell that person every detail about what's going on so they'll know exactly how to help. Brittany seems like someone who just keeps to herself and doesn't want to cause trouble... I don't think she's going to tell someone about what Sadie is doing, so you need to do that for her and help both her and yourself in this situation.

Other than that, don't give Sadie the attention she so desperately seems to crave. If you need to talk to her for any reason (in a class or something, for example) then do that, but don't talk to her more than you have to. Don't give her anything to work on, and you should encourage Brittany do to the same, if she wants to get rid of the abusive "friend".

Shatzy; Brittany told me how she hates the way Sadie treats her half the time. o3o &im not trying to. ._.; and the thing is Britt DOESNT take care of her own problems; any of them. -__-;

I think you should worry about yourself and your own emotional state and let your friends do the same.

Butnevermind. Rofl this never helped. Not like I even thought it would ._.; Butyeah & thanks to everyone. .. xD;

Britt sounds like a passive person, maybe you should things go and let her take care of her problems. :/ In the other hand, Sadie sounds like a spoiled kid who you should tell to fuck off. I wouldn't feel affected by what she said to you. Many times envious and insecure people can only feel good by putting others down.

To be honest, both of your 'friends' sound lame. And lying was NOT mature.

Tell Sadie to go screw herself (and freaking report that physical abuse! NOT kidding) and tell Brit that she needs to grow some balls. TRUTH. It's not your job to handle her problems.

Ditch them until they grow up more.

Or maybe until you all do. Are you still in middle school or something? Cause this sounds like 6th grade crap to me.