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May 12, 2009 16 years ago
Meepsworth
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I've been having some contact issues with my boyfriend. He hasn't had his cellphone for a few weeks, and that was our only way of talking. So, I asked my friend, who goes to his school, to ask him to call/contact me another way. And this is what my friend said back (full conversation):

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He didn&;t pick up. His cell phone is dead, and he doesn&;t have a house phone number. He doesn&;t want to talk to you anymore, and he doesn&;t know how to tell you that. He wants to break up with you, but he doesn&;t know how to do that either. Glad I could be of assistance.

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Now why don&;t I believe you? <em>is suspicious</em>

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I&;m not bullshitting you. This is one of the few times I am serious. Sorry if I had to tell you something you didn&;t wanna hear.

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I don&;t believe you. Seriously. He wouldn&;t do something like that. He could at least man up and tell me himself if he really felt this way. Seriously.</p>
<p>Now, my school has a half day tomorrow. Tell him at school that he absolutely has to call me when your school gets out. If this anything to do with his mom, I wanna know. If I did something wrong to him that I don&;t know about, I wanna know. If you&;re giving me a load of bullshit just because you wanna make me cry, which I already was doing because of tonight&;s episode of House, I also wanna know.

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He doesn&;t like to man up. I did what you asked me to do, which was to tell him to call you, but he told me exactly what I told you earlier...I get a lot of heat from other people for talking to him. I will tell him to call when school is over, and that&;s around 1:40-2:00 for us...I don&;t BS about this kind of stuff, I hope you know. I&;m not trying to make you cry, that&;s not how I roll. I am just telling the truth. If that makes you cry, well, I&;m sorry.

Now, the reason I refuse to believe it is because my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year, and we've been really cool together. We have great chemistry, he knows how to make me smile, as I do with him, we have a ton of similar interests, and he's an all-around amazing guy. But I have other reasons to believe that Daniel is giving me a load of shit.

  1. Sky would never break up with me through a friend over the internet; he'd either do it in person or call me with his mom's OK, since he's got his phone taken away.

  2. Daniel has a HUGE crush on me. A very obvious crush that he tries to cover up by saying he likes my friend who he's only met once.

  3. If Sky would pick a time to break up with me, it wouldn't be right after our 1-year anni.

Right now, I need some comfort, reassurance, and no more bullshit.

May 12, 2009 16 years ago
Kushi
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I have my doubts that anything that guy is telling you is true. It sounded off from the first few lines he wrote. Don't worry about anything until you talk to your boyfriend. And I wouldn't ask that guy to do anything else for you...

May 12, 2009 16 years ago
Meepsworth
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That was what I wanted to talk to him about, Dani, since his mom was behind my discomfort. :(

I never really like Daniel as a friend in the first place. He was always kinda jerky to me in middle school. :o

May 12, 2009 16 years ago
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i think you are over-analyzing.

of course i also think you are silly to date someone in which your only means of communique is a cell phone.





May 12, 2009 16 years ago
Meepsworth
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Ahh, all kinds of good advice from all kinds of people. :D

I'm going to try and stop by his place after school tomorrow, and figure it all out face to face. And if it was all lies... well, Daniel can expect a few death threats in his mail soon. xD

May 12, 2009 16 years ago
Snicklefritz
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Death threats are a really mature way to handle it. He's just being immature himself if he's lying. You might not want to award that with attention, especially if he has a crush on you. Go talk to your Sky dude. It doesn't really sound like a healthy relationship if you don't see him often and only text or talk on the phone.

May 14, 2009 16 years ago
Jirachi
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The part about your friend liking you makes me believe he's not being honest with you. You need to hear it straight from the source before you believe anyone. If he wants you gone, he needs to tell you himself. Find a way to get a hold of him. Talk to another friend to see if they can get a situation together for the two of you. Don't give up until you hear it straight from him.

Good luck. And, look on the bright side... Adam's in the finals. ;D I was debating on whether I should post that or not due to possible spoilers, but him being there was a given anyway... LOL.


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May 14, 2009 16 years ago
The Plushie Collector
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To tell you my honest opinion, I think that whether this guy is BSing or not the relationship is not worth it at all. If there is that little communication between you two, there's no real relationship.

Just drop it where it is and move on.

May 14, 2009 16 years ago
Meepsworth
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Still gone unsolved guys. Tried to go to his house on Tuesday, and my mom couldn't drive me since we were going to help my grandma out with some stuff. My friend Dani is going to try and talk to Sky in any way she can figure out. She's been my BFF since 6th grade, so she really cares about me and my feelings for Sky. We both started going out with our boyfriends around the same time, except they're so different; hers is a hard rocker guy who's in a band, plays guitar, and sings too, whereas mine is quiet, takes acting and singing classes, and loves to write stories about the most random things, and usually involve someone killing/getting killed by the most random things like a teddy bear or a bowling pin (that was mine lol)

So, it makes sense that she would want to help me figure everything out, and I love her for that. :D

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