So... I broke up with my Fiance about a month ago due to the fact that the prick was cheating on me from the word go.

Ever since then he will keep calling me, as in 10 - 20 times a day. If he can't reach me then he will call my sisters, mother, or my friends... to see if they know where I am.

When he finally gives up on calling he will start messaging me, asking "what the fuck did I ever do to you? why are you ignoring me?" blah blah blah. He will tell me all the time how much he loves me. Which I seriously don't understand when he was cheating on me.

Then last night he had the guts to say that he thought I broke up with him because I thought I wasn't good enough for him.

I don't see why he won't get it through his head that its over. His mum, and sisters have told him to leave me alone aswell but he just won't stop.

Anyone know what I can do to stop this??

get a restraining order and change your phone number? i'm not sure what else could help in this situation..

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no I just keeding. Don't shoot him with a cork gun. I would do what deadline said and probably start carrying around something like pepper spray just in case he decides to start stalking you, which doesn't sound like it would be out of the question.

Cork gun might be good!

He lives in a different state to me (he's in the Army - I was about to move up there with him). But he gets leave soon and he told his mum he is going to come down and visit me so we can "work things out".

Talk to him face to face and see if he gets it that way?

does he know that you broke up with him because of the cheating? if not tell him and make it clear that you have no interest in any kind of relationship with him.

then a restraining order sounds like a good next step.

Yikes, what a bad situation to be in! D: I agree with the restraining order.

Maybe you should talk to him on the phone, tell him what he did, and tell him that your over him. Tell him that if he really did love you, he would have stayed faithful to you and would have not cheated.

I hope you get this straightened out!

Block his number from calling you, block any forms of communication with him, and get a restraining order if you must. The next time he messages or calls, don't answer... tell your family and friends to keep from answering as well. He should get bored and give up eventually.

I've said all that, basically word for word actually. He knows that I broke up with him because he cheated. He just doesn't get that what he did was wrong or some shit like that.

I've changed my phone number, blocked him from my email, deleted him from Facebook etc. If he someone manages to contact me again, or comes down here (which really wouldn't surprise me) then I think I'll go with the restraining order. I've just had enough of it all.

Restraining orders as others have said.

And me Mom's second husband cheated on her and he won't let the divorce processes go smoothly so it can all be done with. With him, at least, it's about control of her.