Okay, so today was awful. Okay, so. My crush was going out with my bff, right. So, today he decided he wanted to go out with my friend Alyssa. And Alyssa liked him too. So, Alyssa said yes to him. And then Britany comes over and tells me that thet're going out. And then Alyssa pulls me over to them and Brandon (my crush) is all, "Hi Jourdan.". And I'm all dazed and can hardly talk. And Alyssa's all, "Jourdan..are you okay?" and I'm all, "I dunno. I think I'm gonna cry." And so I go off and walk to my L.A teacher, my fave teacher. And she's all, "What happened?" And I'm all, ""Alyssa and Brandon are going out." And she's all, "I'm sorry." and then I'm all, "I'm serioulsy gonna cry." and then I all start crying. And then she's all, "I'm sorry. I know its hard." and then she rambles on about some story about her crush who she had in high school. And then I stop crying. But then, just because thinking about it made me cry, and I start cring again. I all walk over to my other friends, and they're all "whats wrong?" and then I tell them. And then we had to go in, and I'm still crying and Brandon sees me and he's all "Whats wrong?" and I just ignore him. And then we walk in our classroom and everyone's all hovering around me, while I sit there silently sobbing. And then my teacher all walks over and hugs me. She asks me, "Is it because of boys?" and I'm all, ÿeah." And then eventually I stop crying. But yeah. it was so awful. And his poor ex was crying too. And then his new gf, Alyssa was crying because Nick said it was all her fault because she liked him. God. I hate the world.

Aw. :( I'm sorry. -hugs-

The only thing you can do is move on. Besides, it's not like they're getting married or anything. Casually going out with someone isn't a big deal.

I'm sorry, but you are young and there are plenty of fish in the sea and you have to catch many guppies before you find your goldfish. I know none of those will make you feel better, just remember that you guys are young and it's not the end of the world

well, at least you won't be wondering whether he likes you back or not now.

i know it seems like a big deal now...... but it isnt. you've posted a picture of your crush and he isnt very cute. there's better out there for you. find a nice man like your grandpa who'll stick around forever.

And someone told me he wouldn't go out with me because he didn't like my damn hair. I mean, God! I don't like it either, but there's nothing you can do about it!

Damn, that sucks. I know how horrible it feels... it's going to be tough to get through it but it's not the end of the world. There are many other people for you to meet and get to know out there. You're still young... you'll find someone who wants to be with you and treat you right in no time. And... if he REALLY doesn't like you because of your hair, then at least you can be a bit happier knowing that he's a complete jerk and you're better off without him if he only cares about your looks, right?

Well, it's kinda shallow of him to say he doesn't want to go out with you because he doesn't like your hair. ):

I bet you can find someone better. It may seem impossible now, but that's love. You're infatuated. Just step back and take a breather from boys. When you look at it again with a clear mind, you'll see that you deserve better than someone who is so superficial.

It's hard right now, I know. But things will get better. Crushes come and go. Some work out, some don't. Who knows? Maybe this one will work out in the end. :)

saying he doesnt like your hair is his excuse for just overall not being into you. it's nothing you can change. there isnt anything wrong with your hair.

Yeah, that sucks. I'm going through a bind right now as well, and all I can tell you is that it's school, you have your whole life ahead of you. You just need to suck it up, and tough it out.

Maybe the guy does like you, and he's just afraid to admit it because he's with your friend. And if not, oh well. The guy sounds like a jerk and you can probably do better than him anyway.

But I got the whole hair thing from an unreliable source.