So, I'll try to make this as short as possible, but it's a pretty long story..

I dated this guy(my first love) for 2 years. We'll call him Frank. So, for the last two weeks of our relationship, he just started to treat me like I was crap. He would purposely insult me, even in front of our friends. He stopped calling and answering my phone calls. Finally, extremely angry and frustrated, I called him and to my surprise he actually picked up. He finally confessed that he had been doing these things in hopes of numbing the shock and pain of a break up he had been planning to do the following Wednesday, in person.. So, we broke up over the phone that night.

That was about four months ago.

Well, about a month ago, he calls me up and invites me to Charlie's(a friend of ours) birthday party, taking place at Frank's house. Reluctantly(we hadn't spoken to each other since the break up), I told him I would come as long as I could find a ride. Immediately, he offered me one. I said okay and started gathering up my stuff and getting ready. Thirty minutes later, he shows up. To my surprise, he has Rammstein playing. This came as a surprise because they're one of my favorite bands and Frank has never expressed any form of fondness for them. After a few minutes of small talk and catching up, he pours out all these emotions for me, telling me that he misses me, wants to get back together, should have never left me in the first place, and that he loves me still. So, I was sitting there in a mixture of shock, fear, and confusion. After a little while of not knowing what to say, I told him that we could try going out on dates and see how they went.

The next couple of dates that we went on were amazing, like when we first fell in love. So much passion. I regained my feelings for him.

After our latest date(2 weeks ago), I asked him if he still wanted to get back together and he said that if I was willing, he wanted to. However, we wound up deciding that we both needed to think about it a little longer.

Well, he hasn't asked me out on a date since then, but we do still see each other every Wednesday. And so far on Wednesdays, he flirts with me almost constantly, pays a lot of attention to me.

However, every time I try to call him to ask if he wants to hang out, he doesn't answer. It tears me up a lot every weekend I don't receive a phone call or get to see him. He ignores me except for Wednesdays.

So, I was wondering if anyone had any advice or suggestions for me..

I think...you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he wants to try again, he really needs to pay attention to you more than just one day out of the week, while ignoring you completely the rest of the time. That's certainly no way to go about winning your heart again.

If, after talking, he makes no effort to change...forget about him. I'm sure that's easier said than done, but it's not fair to you.

Thank you for the advice. ^_^

Yeah, I'm considering talking to him Wednesday night, on the ride home, and asking him if he's thought about us..If he's changed his mind, because I think that might be what happened.

i think you are making yourself quite convenient... much to frank's delight, no doubt.

I have to say, it sounds really sketchy. I mean, he only talks to you on Wednesday night and ignores you every other day of the week. I don't think he's interested. For all you know, he could be seeing other girl(s) and could just want a quick hookup. :/ Basically, I wouldn't get back together with him.

Talk to him and ask what the hell is going on. I can understand meeting once a week, but not ignoring your calls etc. Sounds a bit suspicious to me.

Maybe.. I don't know.. I try to act as detached as I can. In public, I almost never interact with him, unless he's started it.

Lol. I didn't really notice that until you brought it up.

:( Maybe.. I just need to talk to him.. I'm definetally not getting back together with him if we don't start spending more time with each other.

:) Thanks for all the advice, you guys. I'm definetally going to talk to him Wednesday. I'll post what happens afterwards.