I was engaged to be married a year ago I ended it with him but we are still great friends well he got together with my ex best friend and they are getting married in November and he wants me to go. I asked him if he loved her he said sort of if it was me he would love me more. Should I go to his wedding?

Umm, so he implied that he would rather be getting married to you? And this was recently? Cuz if that's the case I would talk to the bride or find out if there are other problems and such

Yeah we dated for four years he asked me to marry him my first year in college 6 months later I gave him the ring said can't do it. plus she is my ex best friend (the bride) like Jason made her invite me and she purposefully handed me the invite in the hand with her engagement ring which used to be mine

EWW he gave her YOUR old ring??? Please tell me she is so stupid it doesnt bother her to have some other girls ring?? OMG, I so wouldnt marry some one who couldnt hawk that ring and get me my own. And... no i wouldnt go unless you are thinking of stoping the wedding. But thats just me. I dont keep friends with Ex's dont really see the point unless you share a kid or some thing like that.

This guy sounds dangerous. Go to the wedding to avoid drama, but seriously let that be the last time you come into contact with him. Don't talk to that friend anymore, either.

My advice: RUN AWAAAAAAAAY! This guys sounds like an idiot, and I would stay as far away from him as possible. Don't go.

I wouldn't go. There is a chance of drama if he still likes you. And you don't owe him anything.

he sort of loves her? oh, that girl's in for a 'fine' marriage so why do you want to be around to see it?

i wouldn't go, no

I gotta agree with mmmh81. That was a dick move. Giving her an engagement ring that he gave to a girl who used to be her friend. That's so white-trash. And her giving you the invite with her "ring hand" LOL. Wow.

Whether you go or not be glad you dodged THAT bullet. (I wouldn't go, btw. It'll just be uncomfortable for you, piss her off to see ya there, and God knows what all else.)