I've been using subeta.ws as that was where I joined. I noticed in the news it says it will stay subeta.net....so which do I use? I'd hate to be logging in on the wrong site! Thanks

Use .net--it's the "more official" one endorsed by Keith et al. There's nothing "wrong" with using .ws, but I think Subeta's trying to phase out of using it, so that we're all more uniform.

You should be using subeta.net ^_^