My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year. We fight yes but still. Latley he has gotten into a fight with his best friend because hes best friendsdosent like me and hates the fact that he cant hanf out with him as much. My boyfriend was beat up about it. They had a close realtionship really close but every time i bring it up he shies away also he had a girl spend the night i got upset and he couldnt understand why. I like him but all this is starting to make me think am i really that bad.

a close friend isn't going to beat up another close friend. that's ridiculous.

i get the impression that everyone involved in this circle is trying to learn about relationships and how to handle them.

regardless, if you are uncomfortable and have attempted discussing this with your bf to no avail, it's best to leave.

Thank you shatzy i think your right about it.

Eh, I don't know. Was the girl that spent the night one of his mutual besties? Because my guy besty spends the night all the time, and I'm sure my boyfriend (8 months) is somewhat uneasy about it but knows nothing happens. I just don't find my guy besty attractive at all lol. I'm really shallow and my boyfriend knows that. Still, I'd be upset too, but if they're just friends it should be okay especially if you've had a guy friend sleep over. If it happens a LOT though (like, once every couple weeks instead of maybe once every other month) then I'd start getting suspicious.

and the guy thing? that happens. If he had his own girlfriend he wouldn't be bawwwwing as much.

I'd dump him. Sounds like a child.

I don't want to be with anyone who argues with me over stupid stuff, or more than once a month.

And if he sees no problem with other girls spending the night, he's not ready for a serious commitment anyway.

nogitsune: he didnt know the girl very well if it was his friend i wouldnt care but it was just some girl.

Wonix thanks and i am staring agree