With my freakin' brother! I walk home early from school one day, I walk in, and their tongue-wrestling on my bed! I felt lower than the deepest hole on earth.

I need some advice. He's my bro, so I still love him, but I hate him for what he did. Can someone help me out?

That would make me mad... But, you'll forgive him, or maybe not, I don't know how you are. Maybe tell him how mad you are? Sometimes arguing gets things out of your system and it helps?

Eventually you'll realize that it was better to happen as you'll find someone who's right for you. :) (I mean it was best that you found out that she's like that before everything went too deep)

Maybe talk things over to him when you mange to calm down. Like talk somewhere where it is peaceful.

For yourself: It also helps to go down in the memory lane to replay events or things that may have triggered this event to happen.

if i were in your situation, i would have slugged him. of course, i'm overly violent and you really shouldn't do that. so please don't! @.@

she obviously didn't deserve you if she cheated. but, like the others have said, even though your brother is a total mug right now he's still family. you've been stuck together under the same roof forever, and you won't be able to separate over something silly like a girl.

don't get too fired up over it. this whole thing will blow over soon enough; for now, just keep yourself under control and have a nice, calm talk with your brother. forget about the chick altogether - as long as you keep your brother from starting a relationship with her, she'll disappear before you know it.

Thanks, guys. I forgave HIM, but not her. Apparently, when she cheated on me with my brother, she was cheating on him, too. She's been dating, like, five guys at the same time. And now she isn't liked by ANY guys for that! HA!

honestly, i'd fake the forgiveness and never forget what he did yeah, i'm a spiteful little bitch

my best friend did the same to me with my ex it's something i still poke her about when i feel like it (mind you, that was over 2 years ago)

You can forgive your bro - but you shouldn't forget these kind of things :) because they make you stronger. For what it's worth: the girl wasn't even worthy of either your nor your brothers time.

I hate cheating so yeah 8D I would have been pissed at both of them. Wouldn't take to either of them in a very very long time ^^ but I'm not sure if that's the best way to handle it.

i dunno about any sexual (or age) connection between the girl and all 5 guys -- however i'm not one to necessarily push monogamy on someone that isn't sexually involved. either way, it takes two to cheat.

like the others have said before me, i'm glad you found out now instead of months down the line. i certainly hope it doesn't taint your view of females and relationships -- if only, at very least, just to be more aware.

glad to hear you and your brother are on decent terms too.

So shes been playing you and your brother.. How did you both not know? you didn't say "hey, this is my girl friend " and introduce her? Well, I would blame her even if he did do it knowingly. I have a hard time blaming the single person in a cheating thing. (I am in a relationship, and if my bf were to cheat, Id blame him not her.)

Its hard to put to words why this is.. but it makes sense in my head...

yeah, i really want to know how its even possible for her to be "dating" two brothers at once without either of you finding out.

Oh. my. God.

What a hoe.

I'm so sorry. My jaw actually dropped when I read that.

The same thing happened to me (sort of). A kid lead me on to date my sister. I come home one night to find that they are sitting in his truck doing the same thing your girlfriend and your brother were doing.

Again, I am SO sorry. I feel for you.

bros before hos, man

i know it's a terrible situation but a girl like that ain't worth any more of yer time

If it was me, I'd punch him in the face, ignore him for awhile - THEN I'd talk it out. (But that's just me.) It's easy for everyone to say 'ohhh, just talk it out", but really. You need your space right now and I think that is the best option. Also, break up with your girlfriend (if you haven't already). She's no good and not even worth the feelings. Your brother I can understand, but given time you two can work things out, I'm sure.

Good luck.

It happened to me, like I said.

She's talking to him again.

I hate her.

O.O' wow....

To answer your question, I never intorduced her to my family. They're the EMBARRASSING kind of family. How she found out about my brother, I haven't a clue! I didn't want to push him on the subject since its cooled down.

He had no clue.

Wow. I'm sorry to hear that.

My used-to-be-friend-who-is-now-widely-hated tried to do that and failed. She went out with this guy who could do so much better than her, and then tried to get with his (twin) brother once the relationship started to die. But he was having none of it 'cause she was a fugly bitch. xD Hahaha :)

I was in a similar situation. Only I was the girlfriend :/ Only, there were two brothers. One was my ex and his older brother had no idea I used to be in a relationship with him. So yeah, basically what happened was my ex walked in while me and his brother were making out. The thing is that my ex boyfriend still cares about me a lot and is jealous of his brother ._.

so, yeah, I got into my ranting mode again XD I was trying to say that you should forgive him. He had no idea, so it's not his fault.

What a slut.