i hate hate hate her...
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kay so i have this friend we'll call her A. A i havent seen in over 2 years. today i was supposed to see her and she was supposed to pick me up and all. right? wrong her friend she sees every frieken day told her. i am coming over today whatever plans you had with anyone you hve to cancel. now she went along with this and now im not going to see her for another year now. ugh im sooo mad right now. i just finished destorying my room and stuff
Brianna, why are you still "friends" with them then? Friends don't blow friends off, nor do they go YEARS without seeing someone IF they can help it.
well i was never friends with the one girl but the other one is my best friend and im not going to just leave her but she wont talk to me now and ima bout to kill somwething cuz itll be another hyear before i see her
- How the hell is she a “friend†then?
- Why can’t you leave her? She has no problem leaving you.
- Why do you have to wait a year?
the one isnt a friend and i cant leave her she diodnt want to but she went aliong with it and she wont be here for another year
Ditch her.
That's what I would do.
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I told you to do that before! D:
<p>unless there was some major emergency that would warrant you having to be understand of this, that is not how friends treat each other. it&;s not worth it to have friends like that. not to mention, it&;s not worth you getting so upset that you start destroying things. that&;s not healthy for you. if you get that angry about things, find something else/some way else to cope with your anger.
there is shes never liek this she doesnt even liek the person and katie i knwo but she just gave me another reason to let go and i know how to deal with anger but theres too much stress in my life right now that destructive works best
i have coping methods thanks to my thereapist but theres so much else and i cleaned up everything i broke and such so it pretty good right now
If your friend is passive enough to cancel her plans with you, obviously she doesn't care about you as much as you thought she did. I had a similar situation a couple years ago, and the best thing to do is just drop it.
It hurts losing a friend, but why fight to see someone who won't fight to see you? That's hardly fair.
I wouldn't be just mad at the other girl, it's mostly your friend's fault that she didn't stand up for you and tell the other girl that she already had plans. Worst case scenario the other girl could have just joined you two.
I'm not trying to be a downer but... yeah /: I wouldn't waste your time.
