he's a total creeper, and it's starting to, well...creep me out.
we started out as very good friends. he was fun to talk to and we got along well. we fought a couple times, but they weren't huge conflicts and we got over them quickly.
then somewhere along the line, he expressed his extreme dislike for the rest of my friends, saying they were lame and such. normally this wouldn't bother me, but one of my friends took huge offense to it (yes, they were spineless) and somehow turned them all against me. the whole thing was a drama palooza, so i won't explain it much further than that. i'm trying to reconcile with them, though, and it's working. which is good.
but now i'm stuck with this guy for pretty much all summer long, since a lot of us have drifted apart and have other things to do. he's turned into a sick fuck, and i'm slowly starting to hate his guts.
he's condescending, gross, and throws a big fit and blackmails me if i don't do what he says. he sexually harasses me despite how many times i've told him to knock it off; he plays it off as a joke and keeps on suggesting shit that i really don't appreciate.
that's not the worst part, though. now he's able to get in contact with my younger (9 years old) sister, and i'm afraid he's going to start preying on her just like he's done to me. i've tried all i can to block him out, but since this is all on the internet he can easily evade almost anything i do. i don't want my sister around a freak like him.
so, yes...how do i get it through this guy's head that i don't want to have anything to do with him anymore? like i have said earlier, it's all going on online (lol, e-drama), so i've quickly run out of options i'm aware of to keep him away from my sister and i.
Online drama huh?
Block him and move on :)
That's the great thing about the internet. You have the option of blocking people you don't like.
Also about your little sister, block him for her too. Explain that he isn't a very nice person and you need to block this guy for her own safety.
yes, i've blocked him on subeta. the good thing is that there's few or no ways he can get through that, which is nice.
blocking is a great thing about the internet, but some other places that we both hang out at don't have very good blocking systems. he's stubborn as hell and freaks out when anyone ignores him, so i'm afraid he's going to find some way to get through the blocks.
maybe i'm just being paranoid.
You can always contact the admins of the other sites and explain some of the situation as well.
When it comes to online stalking I'm sure they would be understanding.
that does sound like a good idea. i think i'll try that the next time he bugs me.
thanks for the advice! :)
You're welcome!
I hope you sort this out soon!
Good luck
;D Yeah do exactly what Sultry's suggested :) it's the best course of action.
And in the mean-time, if he does contact you somehow just don't respond in any kind of way. Completely ignore him as if you litterally /can't/ see what he's saying. He'll eventually get bored of talking to a virtual-brick wall :D
How about stopping going to the places that he goes for a while until he moves on to someone else? He doesn't sound worth it.