I cant decide if i should zap Staci i love reborn pets but im not sure if the pet fits me (Staci is my name) Also the zapper made her a male :K so im tempted to risk zapping XD unless there is a gender changing item im not aware of XD

I think you should zap it more...

If you don't love her, then keep zapping her.

Also the Sex Berry will change the gender of your pet.