where is it? I still have my ToT link up, so i wanted to change it...but there is nowhere that I see the 'preferences' page! :( anyone know what is goin on?

If you click on prefs on the right hand corner, there is a forum options link. Here is a direct link: http://subeta.net/preferences.php?act=forum

wow. I reallllllyy am stupid. thank you for shining some light on my 'issue'. The new layout hurts my brain! AARGH! clutches head

No problem! It is a bit confusing, but I love it!!!