how do i change my account prefs such as gender? and my forum prefs like font, signature, and title? thanks for any help!

Click the "Prefs" button on the menu bar at the top to get to your preferences. :)

oh thank you so much!

First off you aren't supposed to ask questions on another thread Second you go down to the VERY bottom on any forum you wish to make a topic in and hit 'make topic' button