I'm so clueless sometimes at which forum does what lol so er, to avoid making someone point out my failure again LOL which forum would I use to offer a contest with prizes for writing?

The Writing Contest forum! http://subeta.net/forums/forum/102 :)

see now that would have taken me about 4 hours to find LOL thank you dear:)

You're welcome and good luck with your contest.

cheers:)